I walk strait up with a smile on my face so it doesn't seem confrontational. Basically whatever you do should be congruent with the method you're using. If you're going direct then there is no point in being indirect with your body language or using disqualifiers or any of the MM stuff. It wouldn't make sense. Basically all you need to tell her is that you think she's attractive and you wanted to talk to her for that reason. You can use whatever exact wording you want. Then I'll usually introduce myself and then start talking about random stuff. If you want some examples of this method check these guys out:
Good Looking Loser
They aren't disciples of W Anton but they use similar methods.
PS I can tell you're new here. I would suggest going out and getting some practice cause they will speed your learning faster than anything else.
I practiced some direct approaches on the street following the book's instructions, but it seemed it didn't work. Any idea? Has anyone followed the book's instructions and done direct approaches and succeeded?
1. Confident: You feel good about yourself, you firmly believe that you are attractive, desirable. You think that you are important, and you are the most important person to yourself. You don't care other people's opinion of you, you care your opinion of yourself. You are fearless, you are relaxed, you feel comfortable.
2. Charming: You make the girl feel good about her, you compliment her, you flirt with her,you encourage her to talk more.
3. Make things happen: You initiate, you isolate, you make a move, generally you make things happen. You persist when you meet resistance without lost of enthusiasm.
4. Body language: You use your voice, your body(the way you talk, you stand, you walk, you sit, your facial expressions) to convey that you are confident, that you like her, and that you are relaxed and comfortable.
"The Manual" approach is cold, direct and you have to act confident even when you are unsecure inside.
In my case, I used it in the last week and yesterday (I just finished reading the book) in nightclubs 4 times, of which 3 were success, instant dates and the other one I just got the telephone number. ( I live in Las Vegas, so there are always nightclubs or lounges open every day)
That system works. No need to pretend or being indirect. I have to confess that every time I began talking to each lady I arrived very confident in the exterior and with total concealed shyness inside me. I was acting, but that shyness disappeared after about 2-5 minutes after initiating the conversation.
I recommend this book, definitively. I have not read the Mystery method or any other one except "The Game"
Directisbest, could you post the link for your post that summarizes the main points of the book: The manual: What women want and how to give it to them?