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    Default The manual: What women want and how to give it to them

    I'm reading the book the manual:what women want and how to give it to them. I read this book because DirectIsBest(a member on this forum) recommends me it.

    I just finished half of the book.
    I'm wondering how we can be direct? I mean, when you approach a girl and you are direct, what do you say to her?

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    Default Re: The manual: What women want and how to give it to them

    Going direct means putting every thing on the table. Example: " I think you're cute and want to get to know you." Sometimes that can scare women off seeing as how you just met them( depending which direct lines you use). It's a brave way to go though. On the other hand indirect is way more exciting and you control the situation because you come across as mysterious and only giving her a hint of what you're like and gets her thinking a lot. Direct on the other hand also comes off as manly because you know what you want and you speak it, if she says no then it's her loss and you move on.
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    Default Re: The manual: What women want and how to give it to them

    Something similar to what Marvilo says. "You are gorgeous/stunning/sexy/beautiful/cute. What's your name?" or even more cheesy "Is your mother around?" She'll likely say no, but works just as easily if she says yes, then say "Okay, I just wanted to voice my appreciation for the quality job she's done with what I see in front of me."
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    Default Re: The manual: What women want and how to give it to them

    I finished the book "The manual: What women want and how to give it to them." I followed the instructions and did some approaches on the street and a coffee shop, but no success. But of course this doesn't mean that the book is not useful. It does help me understand socialization and make me more confident, but the direct approach may not be that useful on the street or a coffee shop.

    I am considering if I need to read any other books. Does anyone have recommendations?

    I am considering one of the 2 books: 1.The Natural: How to Effortlessly Attract the Women You Want
    2. Models: Attract Women Through Honesty

    Which book do you think is better?

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    Default Re: The manual: What women want and how to give it to them

    Read them all and then stick to what applies to you. I'm reading and picking bits here and there accordingly. Not everything will work for you so pick the bits that you think are awesome and combine it with other materials.

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    Default Re: The manual: What women want and how to give it to them

    What were the reactions that you got from the women you approached? The street and coffee shop are PERFECT for direct approaches. You have to understand that even REALLY confident guys get blown out allot, especially on cold approaches. There's a good chance you weren't being congruent or you were being timid. Women can pick up on that stuff really well.

    I already wrote about what I got from the book in a previous post and that's why I liked it so much. It doesn't give you lines and routines, that's the point. I refuse to read any new PUA material because it gets me to over think and makes things more complicated then they really are. I actually regressed when I started reading into PUA. However; I was already decent with women to begin with. I can see how it would help guys who aren't.

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    Default Re: The manual: What women want and how to give it to them

    Now I'm reading Models: Attract Women Through Honesty. It may take me another 10 days to finish it. Does anyone know a book better than it?

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    Default Re: The manual: What women want and how to give it to them

    sometimes i dont get whether your teaching or just making statements..pick up is great!

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    Default Re: The manual: What women want and how to give it to them

    The book The manual: What women want and how to give it to them is a great book, but does anyone follow the instructions in the book and approach girls and have a high success rate? I mean to approach a girl and get her number or arrange an instant date. Or did you make any variety?

    The conundrum for me is, I think that it is a great book, it is easy to understand, not confusing, make much sense.But when I follow the instructions to approach girls, it doesn't work. The manual teaches us to walk directly towards a girl and start straight in front of a girl, and tell her directly that she is beautiful and you want to know her.
    Now I'm reading another book: The natural: How to effortlessly attract the women you want,it teaches different. When you are going to open a girl, you should not stand straight in front her, you should open with the feet pointing away as this can lesson the pressure. Guys, if you do direct game, how do you approach girls? What are your body language and what do you say?

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    Default Re: The manual: What women want and how to give it to them

    Referring to your last post I have tried his advice a few times and got decent results although I've only done it a few times because I've just started direct daygame. But I notice a huge difference between how girls react in bars versus daytime when you use his method. In bars they tend to take it in stride but in the daytime most women act extremely flattered and impressed by the balls you showed. One girl I approached even said she had a boyfriend but I should keep doing what I did cause she loves it when men have the balls to approach her like that.

    As far as the contradictory advice goes lets compare Mystery Method and The Manuel. I agree the advice is very contradictory but that's because each method is trying to achieve different things. Mystery Method is trying to make it seem like you started an accidental conversation and then just happened to like the girl after you started talking to her. The Manuel is very up front and any attempt to be indirect would not be congruent with a direct approach and would just make you look like you're not confident.


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