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    Default Re: How to respond after ignoring for a week.

    So, I ended up hanging out with her last nite. She called me at 11pm. I thought about cancelling, but Im bad at that. Anyway we metup, rode around in her car. We smoked, then I asked her to give me a ride home around 1am, because I was tired. Had a good lil smoke sesh, talked and joked alot. Gave her shit, not much kino(Bad at that as well). Anyway she dropped me off, I didnt go for the kiss. I also havent texted since she dropped me off. I just went straight to bed. She wants to hangout anlgain and drink, should I set that up tonight. And was I smart for not going for the kiss close?

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    Default Re: How to respond after ignoring for a week.

    I feel like you need to escalate some more. You already have some comfort level established. Also, the escalation will help divide you from a potential date than a smoke buddy.

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    Default Re: How to respond after ignoring for a week.

    Whether or not you were smart to not go for the kiss depends on a lot of different variables. Either way it doesn't seem to really matter.. She wants to drink, that's a very good sign that she's interested in you.

    Careful here that you don't fall into the friendzone here.. You wanna make sure you aren't just making her feel comfortable and complacent when she's with you, but that you are also being flirty and creating some sexual tension and attraction (Look into Kino escalation etc if need be). All that said, don't over think this stuff and fall into the trap of "overgaming". Just be more flirty and role with it.. Hope that makes sense.

    I would text her this afternoon around 1 or 2pm regarding drinking tonight. Open up with something light first "What's up *nickname*, staying out of trouble today?", and let the second text be about tonight.

    Try to meet up with her at a bar or something and then move to another bar (if those things are a possibility) before going back to either your place or hers. I think you can close this thing tonight, if that's what you want that is.

    Look sharp the next time you see her.

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    Default Re: How to respond after ignoring for a week.

    So, I had her over last nite. I pretty confident shes interested, because she has been.hangin out just me and her when we do. Last nite, she came over at 10pm. We smoked and drank a lil bit, she was already a little buzzed. I didnt kino alot, i had close proximity to her the whole night on the couch, my leg touchin her things like that. I feel like i really couldnt escalted effecrltivly, because she was a little too drunk for that, lmao. So we feel asleep on the couch, not cuddling she fell asleep on on one end. We wokeup around 6am, and i walked her out. She stood there after I walked out the door, I gave her a hug no kiss. I need help figureing out how to take this to where i want.

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    Default Re: How to respond after ignoring for a week.

    Come on dude how many chances does she have to give you.

    You don't need help, you need to take a chance and go for the kiss if she's just standing there waiting for you. Or try to kino escalate with her, try to hold her hand on the couch. That's easy shit.

    If she rejects you, no big deal, its only a big deal if you make it a big deal. If she's genuinely your friend she'll actually admire that you have balls, and went for it, AND STILL BE YOUR FRIEND.

    If she doesn't awesome, problem solved.

    Take a chance, and stop trying to play it safe and fearing rejection. You always lose that way and that's how you get friend zoned. Rejection isn't scary at all nor a big deal.

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    Default Re: How to respond after ignoring for a week.

    Mhm.. What Kyl3 said pretty much sums it up. I'm not really sure what you were waiting for but she's not likely to make the first move, even if she likes you. Her being drunk is an excuse, you didn't escalate because you were scared to, that's fine but stop making excuses.

    You have one more shot at this I think, it won't take long until she gets tired of waiting for you to make a move and/or starts to see that you are afraid to make a move. She came over, drank alcohol, and slept on your couch. She trusts you. If you made a move and you were able to push through a little LMR (probably not much if she was drinking) she would have ended up in your bed, instead of sleeping on the other end of the couch.

    Ask her when she wants to hang out again.. All you can really do right now. Don't be needy. If you succeed, great.. If you fail you'll learn for the next one. Nothing to worry about.


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