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    Default How to respond after ignoring for a week.

    This is my first past to the forum, sorry if I was supposed to Introduce myself first. I'll get to that next.

    So, I met this girl around Sept 2013, at my loft in downtown STL. At the time I was living in a $1900 a month loft. Super-fresh bachelor pad. It was just me her, two of her guy friends(afc's). It wasnt very eventful, we just smoked hooka. So, I have her on FB and snapchat and now have her number. I got her number when I ran into her at a 7-11 she had locked her keys in her car. I ended up getting them out, cant remember if I gave her much shit. So as a number close at the end because i knew she was 420 friendly I was like "Hey we should match". She said "Yea, let me find some". I said "Ok, text me." (knowing she didnt have my number). To which she replied "I dont have your number." I gave it to her, and then she made sure she called me so I had hers. So i yext her that day:

    2/16/14
    Me: Fight out anything yet?
    Her: Yea, but Im in the county.
    Her: Im at home now.
    Me: My connect might be good by then,if i get some you wanna match?
    Her: I dont have any.
    Me: If you can get it now, I'll smoke you out. My connect doesnt get off til 8.
    (Good reaction time, not too slow.)

    (3 hrs later)

    Her: Omg, I fell asleep.
    (No response from me)

    2/19
    Me: Can you get anything?
    Her: Probably, idk.
    (No response from me)

    2/22/14:
    Her @ Midnite: Heyy
    (No response from me, I was in jail for a missed court date)

    I understand I may seem like a less than worthy mate for this girl, but I make good money and just so happen to enjoy weed. And tend to miss court dates. I have value that she has experienced. So, my question in really two. Is she interested? And how should I open her again for escalation? I would like to use a short, witty text like Gunsnglory explains in his guide. I gotta admit, Im not big on nicknames or some if the nicknames ive seen used. She already has a nickname "Pickles", I could use that one, but it doesnt make me stand out. I wanna give her shit about lockin her keys in her car as well.

    I was thinking something like: "Hey, Bob Marley I hope youve managed to not lock ur keys in ur car lately."

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    Default Re: How to respond after ignoring for a week.

    First don't use anything that you don't feel comfortably using and don't belittle yourself compared to a girl. There's no such thing as a girl that's "too good" for you. Second your example would be a good one to send to her. Try to freeze out of her everyday though.
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: How to respond after ignoring for a week.

    6 days has gone by since she texted me, is that too long of a time period, or you think im good?

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    Default Re: How to respond after ignoring for a week.

    Just texted her today after I did a 1 week freezeout. She sent me a snapchat of some purp the other day, with a caption reading.."Smokin on the purp, ease my mind"...Those being Lil Boosie lyrics. I incorporated that into my text today. I just need to know where to go from here.

    Me: Sup Boosie, Smokin on dat purp...Lock ur keys in ur car lately?"

    2hrs later Her:Hahahha nope.

    Should I freezeout bc of a shitty reaponse, should i give her shit. Should I suggest a sesh.

    Also just curious, I work 12 hrs a day and I do door to door sales so its hard for me to respond, so I kinda have to freezeout ever once in awhile. Is that something i should worry about or calibrate?

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    Default Re: How to respond after ignoring for a week.

    You're gonna hurt yourself if you keep thinking so hard about this.

    You're fine. 6 days is in no way a deal breaker, I would possibly somehow incorporate into one of your texts how busy you are these days. Busy is good. Flakey, not so much.

    Your texts seem fine, you seem to have that under control. You guys both seem to want to smoke weed together so just be confident and set up a meeting, she did hit you up while you were in jail after all.. Change up how long it takes you to reply here and there, you can base that partially on her responses, but don't freeze her out, it's not necessary.

    Her response wasn't terrible. I usually take a long laugh like that as an IOI. In that situation I would match the 2 hours it took her to respond and then reply with something like "Good cuz I'm far more in the mood to smoke than to rescue keys at the moment. Let's do this thing."

    Don't bother giving her shit.

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    Default Re: How to respond after ignoring for a week.

    ^^ What he said. Stop over analyzing everything. That wasn't a shitty response. Have fun with it!

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    Default Re: How to respond after ignoring for a week.

    Just txted her again, exactly what you said. She didnt quite get it tho...Because she texted back "What?". I then replied "Im sayin, I havent smoked in hellas. Been busy as fuck, find some dank and I'll smoke you out."...Its been about an hour and no response. Whats my next move?

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    Default Re: How to respond after ignoring for a week.

    Haha sounds like she's already high..

    Perhaps you're relying a little too much on the weed thing.. Maybe just bring your own if it's that important. Relying on her all the time to have some might be hurting you.

    Now you wait, all you can do.. She'll text back. Let us know what she says.

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    Default Re: How to respond after ignoring for a week.

    Shejust did text back, bout a half hour after my last reply. She said "When?"

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    Default Re: How to respond after ignoring for a week.

    Base it on your own schedule.. If you're free tonight and on the weekend say "I'm free tonight or on the weekend. What's your sched like?"

    If you're free tonight and tomorrow but busy on the weekend "Tonight works and I'm pretty free tomorrow, Weekends no good though."

    Change it up accordingly. She waited an hour and a bit. No biggie, reply within 30 mins or so.


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