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    Default Approaching Women While They're Working

    Essentially when they're in a professional environment. I'm asking because it happened to me recently, although nothing came of it. So I thought I'd share my experience and would like to know if anyone here has approached women while they are on the job.

    I flew back from Asia last week and onboard my flight was by far the cutest stewardess I've ever seen. She looked like she walked right out of those airline calendars. It was a 11+ hour flight and she was servicing the two aisles opposite from where I was sitting. I was extremely tired so I dozed off not knowing for how long. Within minutes of waking up, I saw her walking down my aisle and I flagged her down asking her for a pen and paper. (She looked every better up close) She returned shortly with my request and I began to write (there was an envelope as well with the paper). Nothing happened for the rest of the flight, sadly... nor was I expecting anything to happen.

    Once we landed, I managed to make my way throw two rows of passengers walking towards the exit. (It was quite a feat with a lot of sorry's and exuse me's involved) Once I made it pass the middle row the flight attendant saw me, perhaps just curious on why a passenger would make the way across the plane at this time. I handed her the note along with the pen and extra paper which I didn't use. She smiled and said those were mine to keep, but then I showed her the sealed envelope and said "this is for you." She had a confused look on her face but still accepted it with a smile. By that time I had to return because I was holding up a line. That was the last I ever saw of her. In the note I wrote something along these lines...

    "Hi, I didn't want to trouble you while you were working but I would just like you to know you are the cutest flight attendant I've ever seen. Don't worry I'm not hitting on you, because how could I? I'm already gone. If you would like to grab coffee/tea sometime, my contact is xxx-xxx-xxxx."

    She never called. But I'm glad I still did what I did because I would be thinking about the "what if's" if I had just kept to myself. Any critiques or thoughts on my approach? Or any other suggestions on approaching women while they are working?

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    Default Re: Approaching Women While They're Working

    I don't have experience with flight attendants or an actual professional environment. It's all situational, and in one circumstance you need to be indirect, while in the other circumstance you need to be extremely direct and confident.


    What I DO have experience in, is food service, and basically any other semi-professional environment. (Not business setting, think coffee shop) I'm pretty much an expert at work-place environments.

    In a Subway, or fast food environment, you need to be EXTREMELY CONFIDENT, FUNNY, AND DIRECT, and wait for when the line is gone and we have no customers. I actually frequently work at one in a casino, and guys are cocky, and funny to the girls I work with, but never ballsy enough to get the number. You need balls. The good news is, since I've literally never seen a guy pull a number on one of my co-workers, she'll probably more than willingly give it to you as long as you are sort of attractive and not creepy.
    Example convo: "HEY! so how much are your Subs?! farking $100?
    Girl: (laughs) They will be $5.30 sir.
    *I promise she'll laugh at this because its so random and ridiculous, I've actually saw a guy use this line before on one of my co-workers and it even made me laugh hard.*
    Guy: Are you sure? I don't know if I should believe a girl with a gorgeous smile like yours. Where is your supervisor?!
    Girl: He's not here hahaha.
    Guy: Well i'm not interested in your subs. I'm interested in you, because you're really cute, and you seem to have a descent sense of humor. I'm Kyle. Give me your number so we can continue this. Or use Kino's number close. (I'd probably use kino's number close, because it's all I use now. Search the forums for it.)

    Basically, be extremely bold, funny, and direct. She'll either be interested or she won't be. You don't have time to run a routine or build too much attraction, so it's going to be hit or miss on this because fast food places are SOOOO busy.



    In a coffee shop environment... Wait until the line is gone, and then walk up and be indirect at first. Make small-talk and find out her interests. Then immediately qualify her and go direct.
    I actually work in a coffee shop with cute girls too, perks of being an employee in a casino.
    Example: "Hey, so what're your cappuccinos like? I'm interested in them.
    Girl: BLAH BLAH.
    Guy: Interesting, so do you go to school? Are you from around here?
    Girl: Says she goes blah blah. From blah blah hometown.

    This is where it gets important. You need to instantly qualify her, and then be direct.

    You go to (whatever) College? That's awesome, I have a ton of friends who go there. I really love smart, educated girls, and you're cute too, so that's a bonus. It's just too bad you work in a coffee shop, girls who work in a coffee shop are nothing but trouble... so I should probably stay away.

    Girl: *Says whatever to qualify that she's not trouble, or something else along those lines...*

    Guy: Well, i'd honestly love to get to know you some more, get to know the real (her name) but I have some friends waiting. GIVE ME YOUR NUMBER.

    *She'll give you her number even if you are the slightest bit attractive and confident etc. If she doesn't then oh well, but trust me, you did better than 95% of the guys who try to get my co-workers numbers.*

    There is so many different situations. I can pretty much give you advice on all of them because that's my biggest strength IMO, Workplace dating and approaching girls in workplace environments. If you need any more help message me.

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    Default Re: Approaching Women While They're Working

    Nice attempt! Flight attendants are incredibly social people. If you are going indirect, there's no problem. (Though I personally don't care who sees me gaming the chick)
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    Default Re: Approaching Women While They're Working

    Thanks again to Kyl3 to answering my PM!
    and thanks to cdharders for the pat on the back haha


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