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Thread: Bus ride

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    Default Bus ride

    Hey guys, after a long day from work heading home on the bus. I noticed a HB sitting all by herself, so I sat right across her. At first I was panicking, asking myself what should I say without being creepy or weird. So I looked at my phone as if I was responding to a text message.. Then Looked at her, she looked at me.. She then began to play with her hair.. I felt as if the hair playing was a IOI.. So I turned towards her and asked if she knew where Ashburne Street is and how can I get there. I told her that I was suppose to meet up with a buddy of mine later on the day.
    She showed a lot of interest, began to tell me that she was new in town, I complimented her on the way she dressed.. She told me she got into a few fights at the bar...
    This conversation went for about 8 minutes until I asked her if she likes her roommates.. She then said "Oh.. I live with my boyfriend." I paused for about 7 seconds.. I remembered in the conversation we had, that she went to a few bars and got into fights, so I told her.. Maybe its the people you go to bars with.. The bus then arrived at the terminal so I figured its now or never.. I suggested her to come a party later on this week, so I can get her number.
    I figured I could've told her during the week that the party got canceled, and go out with her.
    She said she didnt have a phone, so I said .. Oh I guess there is no way of getting a hold of you. She then said Sorry, and I responded by saying its alright.

    I feel like I did something wrong, but I dont know what I did
    I know I didnt ask her what her name was...
    Maybe after leaving the bus.. I could have suggested if she wanted to grab something to eat..
    What do you guys think?

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    Default Re: Bus ride

    1. You should've introduced your self and swapped names. I would of told her my name after she said she was new in town too.
    2. Sounds like you were building comfort - which is good. However, did you build attraction with her? Complimenting her was ok, but did you flirt with her and connect to her emotional side?
    3. Dude, do you really believe she doesn't have a phone? If any girl told me she didn't have a phone even if she was 12, I wouldn't believe it. You should have called her out that.

    Anyway, good job for approaching.

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    Default Re: Bus ride

    Or maybe she really did have a boyfriend?

    Any gf I've ever had got approached the exact same way, and each time she shut them down simply because she had a bf and wasn't interested. Guys get so wrapped up in thinking they did something wrong in these situations, when a lot of the time it's really simple. She has a boyfriend.

    Good on you for opening with her, man. That took balls. Keep going with it.

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    Default Re: Bus ride

    Thats Ballsy to do what you did there! I am really new to this, however, I think you did not assert yourself well there. I kinda fall in the same situation whenever I have build too much comfort. So try to flirt a little more next time and show some more sexual intention

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    Default Re: Bus ride

    Have you find a new solution to this yet? I am also curious too ;D


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