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Thread: Giving me IOI's then stops giving me IOI's

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    Default Giving me IOI's then stops giving me IOI's

    I am in my final year of college and I'm 18 years old. I am a comedian and i am fully confident in myself. I have two older brothers so they got the fear of approaching women out of me when i was 13. but yesterday i hit a block it is not that i have no idea what to do but i want to get other people's opinions the more opinions i have the better...

    Yesterday i was in college and i see my friend in a class room with another one of his male friends and he introduces me to two girls so i start to flirt with my target then whilst she is speaking i start flirting with the other girl for about 15 minutes then i come back to her and start flirting with her and she was laughing and i was building up kino escalation with both of them playfully fighting them, playing with their hair putting my arm around them etc.. my target was receptive to it at first then she moved away at one point when i had my arm around her neck.

    then she started to get colder...

    I know i could still get her i just wanted to know what people thought were the best ways to go about this? oh and (i know people might say i should of number closed but i can't because i have lost my phone)

    if i get no responses by tomorrow i will post how it went and what i did..

    everything should go well i set my frame from the beginning i even told her that i was the prize and she would have to work hard to win me over and i even had her joining in on my crude jokes and she is a shy girl..

    If things don't go well i'm not really bovered she's a 7 i've had better and i will have better again..

    but the way i am is that once i open a book i need to at least try and finish it and i have opened this book

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    Default Re: Giving me IOI's then stops giving me IOI's

    (i know people might say i should of number closed but i can't because i have lost my phone)
    if you have a pen you can get a number. (no excuses.)

    Yesterday i was in college and i see my friend in a class room with another one of his male friends and he introduces me to two girls so i start to flirt with my target then whilst she is speaking i start flirting with the other girl for about 15 minutes then i come back to her and start flirting with her and she was laughing and i was building up Kino Escalation with both of them playfully fighting them, playing with their hair putting my arm around them etc.. my target was receptive to it at first then she moved away at one point when i had my arm around her neck.

    then she started to get colder...
    you may have created some jealousy when you gamed both of them at the same time. she may not have felt like she was you're definite target, and thus might think you aren't very interested in her.
    you probably hit her harder than you think with one too many negs and/or teasing. (and yes you can tease too much.)

    without any serious comfort game, all you are is a dancing monkey.

    everything should go well i set my frame from the beginning i even told her that i was the prize and she would have to work hard to win me over and i even had her joining in on my crude jokes and she is a shy girl..
    while the "I am the prize" frame is good, you don't have to physically say the phrase. it is far better to believe that you are the prize, than it is to tell a girl that you are the prize.
    if you don't dhv before busting out a line like that, she isn't going to believe it for a minute.

    I never bother to actually say that I am the prize, I just know it. the only time I would pull out a line like that is if she's being real b!tchy.

    I'm going to say that you probably over-gamed her, that is, she probably sensed that you were trying way too hard.

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    Default Re: Giving me IOI's then stops giving me IOI's

    you are right sir.. i have no excuse for not getting her number.

    and i DHV'd and i am always relaxed and layed back and never try to hard.. my body language is good.

    I have a feeling it is jealousy, but that can be accomplished with reassurance and i spent time with just us two where i built comfort... in your opinion what do you think i should do

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    Default Re: Giving me IOI's then stops giving me IOI's

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post
    if you have a pen you can get a number. (no excuses.)



    you may have created some jealousy when you gamed both of them at the same time. she may not have felt like she was you're definite target, and thus might think you aren't very interested in her.
    you probably hit her harder than you think with one too many negs and/or teasing. (and yes you can tease too much.)

    without any serious comfort game, all you are is a dancing monkey.



    while the "I am the prize" frame is good, you don't have to physically say the phrase. it is far better to believe that you are the prize, than it is to tell a girl that you are the prize.
    if you don't dhv before busting out a line like that, she isn't going to believe it for a minute.

    I never bother to actually say that I am the prize, I just know it. the only time I would pull out a line like that is if she's being real b!tchy.

    I'm going to say that you probably over-gamed her, that is, she probably sensed that you were trying way too hard.

    And she was being bitchy that's why i used the line she kept on giving me shit tests which i never accept..

    I may of taken the teasing too far because i didn't care how it went i just let out my natural comedian flow(which can go wrong) either way i know i will get her... once i have attraction 8/10 i capitalize on it

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    Default Re: Giving me IOI's then stops giving me IOI's

    i just let out my natural comedian flow(which can go wrong)
    you always have to be careful not to overdo the humor, if you never talk about anything serious, then you're just entertaining her.

    without building a connection, all that laughter is just going to make you the "funny friend".

    I think you have fallen into the trap of being an entertainer. (I know because I used to have the same approach to getting woman) while making them laugh is good, you have to give them room to talk.

    my suggestion to you, is to dial back the humor and let her to try and make you laugh. have her tell you a story for every story you tell, have her make a joke for every joke you tell, make her play the game just as much as you are.

    btw
    once i have attraction 8/10 i capitalize on it
    do you?

    imo had you capitalized on her attraction, you would have gotten her number and already took her out (and would probably be posting about how you farked her in the back seat of your car)

    (tough love)

    METEORA

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    Default Re: Giving me IOI's then stops giving me IOI's

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post
    you always have to be careful not to overdo the humor, if you never talk about anything serious, then you're just entertaining her.

    without building a connection, all that laughter is just going to make you the "funny friend".

    I think you have fallen into the trap of being an entertainer. (I know because I used to have the same approach to getting woman) while making them laugh is good, you have to give them room to talk.

    my suggestion to you, is to dial back the humor and let her to try and make you laugh. have her tell you a story for every story you tell, have her make a joke for every joke you tell, make her play the game just as much as you are.

    btw


    do you?

    imo had you capitalized on her attraction, you would have gotten her number and already took her out (and would probably be posting about how you farked her in the back seat of your car)

    (tough love)

    METEORA
    you are very right.. i am no quitter though.. day by day my game is improving


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