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    Default Up and Down .... what to do?

    I met a girl online and we exchanged numbers. We texted a lot for 10 days before meeting up.

    The meeting up part I felt she set me up for a lot of bad. I made a wrong turn, so i texted her 10 minutes prior, saying that I was going to be 5 minutes late. She grabbed a table and waited for me alone at the restuarant bar. I finally saw her, gave her a hug and talked for almost an hour ... it was good, we both had our fair share to talk. She was obviously nervous (speaking really fast) and she was playing with her fingers and hair. Down side, she was texting throughout (claiming it was her sister needing to pick her up). We finished after 45 minutes. I said to her I wanted to see her again this weekend, and she said "yeah, just text me". I walked her to her car and gave her a hug.

    I know she is busy, but the texts have cut down to a total of 4 this week compared to before. I still want to see her this weekend. What should I text her, or do?

    Do you guys notice something I'm not seeing (disinterest)?

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    Default Re: Up and Down .... what to do?

    "Talking & having a great conversation" never builds attraction... that builds rapport.
    Rapport without attraction = Friends.

    That, combined with 10 days of texting without flirting & making your intent known, is definitely the fast track to the Friend Zone.

    If you want a date #2, you have to give her a reason to want to see you again.
    You need to project fun, confidence, excitement, FUN, and more fun!

    Also- KISS HER!
    Because "Friends" don't kiss.




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    Default Re: Up and Down .... what to do?

    What are some good date #2 ideas thats interesting and fun and creates lot of opportunities to escalate interest or anything.

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    Default Re: Up and Down .... what to do?

    You need to start flirting BEFORE you go for another "date".
    The date itself doesn't even matter to a girl.

    I've done things like bowling, laser tag, skee-ball, picnics, drinks, walking, karaoke....

    The key is to get her excited about seeing YOU, and wanting to meet up.
    To do that you need to flirt.

    Start escalating intellectually before you get together.

    "Stimulate the mind & the body will follow".

    Tease & banter with her... make it playful.. like a game. (Because it IS a game)


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