First off I'm going to give you the background. This girl has just broken up with her boyfriend of 1 year yesterday and I've had a thing for her for about a month. Yes, I have been sarging other girls in this time believe me, I don't have one-itis. She's a HB9 - and I'm being quite conservative here, if you saw her you'd agree. More importantly, she's my type of personality. We both work part-time at a tennis centre. I'm a coach whereas she works the counter.
I see her about 3 times a week, and we get along really well. I talk to her from the frame of an older brother and she loves it. I'm constantly receiving IOIs and our conversations (even when she was with her boyfriend)have always been incredibly flirty. I tease her mercilessly about whatever it is on the day I feel like teasing her about, then turn around and accuse her of bullying me. Seriously guys, I'm actually scared of her . Everyone at the club knows that we have the hots for each other and it's become a bit of a fun talk subject. The last two weeks we've been associating numbers for each other on the hot-o-meter (out of ten) and we both agree that we're a 10.1 .
At her insistence, I took her to the movies to see a comedy. We went alone (I guess she didn't want her boyfriend to know ) but, I didn't physically escalate out of respect for her relationship and the sh*t I would take at work for going for it while she was dating someone else. The most Kino we've had was on a night that we're pretty bored and we ended up just about cuddling. Nawww . She's fine with me touching her practically anywhere up to kissing and she knows that I'm a bit of a lady kill outside of work.
So far so good, right? Well, just the other day on ask.fm (Yeah, yeah.. I know), I got this answer for a Honest Opinion I posted on her wall (She did one on mine first):
"You are one of my very good guy friends, can tell you anything, I love our Friday night chats, and working with u on Mondays haha, we have funny as convos and you r such a great person!"
This is the second time that I've been referred to as a friend by her, though perhaps she is trying to convince her now ex that she doesn't have feelings for me. Either way, it's not good that she's saying we're just friends. She does open up to me a lot, though never about her issues with her boyfriend. She tried once , I changed the subject and she's never brought him up since unless absolutely necessary. I have used the boyfriend destroyer over the last couple of weeks... must have worked .
Anyways, I was hoping that one of you fine chaps could give me some insight as to whether or not I am in fact in the F-zone. If I am, some advice on how to change this wouldn't go astray. I'm no newbie to PUA, so I've got a relative idea of how to proceed but, I need to know how far up sh*t's creek I really am hahaha.