Hey guys, decided to ask for advice here. Some what of an unusual situating.its new to me so...
Im going to start and go backwards since it can get a little long but i'll appreciate if you take the time. Trying to provide details. First off, I have a decent amount of game and understanding of it so im not clueless. I just want to make sure im doing the best thing here. here it goes
So I just broke up with my gf for about a year. It recently became a LDR so keep that in mind. the way we came to break up was I was being needy but at the same time, insensitive.
So she hadn't responded to me in a few days and when she did she said she been going through some things like dealing with her little brother, her mom's bs, school, and trying to find a job(money).
So I replied with, "oh thanks. Its ok, I understand how hard it can b to pick up your phone for 3 seconds to text me"
She replied, "I just told you im going though all this shit and that's all you have to say"
I reply, "I said thanks!"
that was the end of that and we stopped talking for a couple days. SO I tried to reinitiate contact 2-3 days later with no luck. Called and texted..no reply. So I wait another 2-3 days call and text. My text consisted of something like, "idk whats going on but I hope your ok. if your doing this on purpose its pretty immature of you"..no reply
So I wait another 2 days call and text..no reply
the reason I was calling and texting so much is because we talk everyday (LDR). Also that's totally not like her to do this. She ignored me once before wen we first switched to LDR when I joked about having another gf. She cut contact for 3 days.
So anyway, after about 7-8 days of this I call again and leave a voicemail saying, "idk whats going on..u cant even call me back or answer. if I don't hear from you soon I guess im gonna have to assume that we're not together, bye"
Wake up next morning with a text saying, how she told me she was going though all that stuff and I didn't care. She don't have the time and energy for this. take care...not exact but close to that.
so I call no answer...then i text her, "cant even call...like this, a text? we should at least talk"...of course no reply
So I text one final text saying, "I just wanted to say since your phone still isn't working haha. Im, sorry, I understand. Just follow your heart my little buddy! Hope it all works out for ya"
and that was the end of that. So now its no contact and still haven't heard from her
So I figured just stick to the no contact for 3-5 weeks any thoughts or insight? I do want to get her back if possible.
Thanks guys for reading
I figured i'll give more details in the next post about our relationship if any of you are willing to read through