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    Default Asking a girl out from work

    I've known this girl for about a year now. We've hung out outside of work once at a party but we didn't talk much. We typically see each other one day a week and the past month or so we've been lightly flirting with each other. I wanna ask her for her number but don't know at all what to say. Any help would be appreciated.

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    Default Re: Asking a girl out from work

    Before you go for the number, increase you flirting.
    Be a little more confident & bolder than you have been. Work on building some attraction first...

    THEN get the number.

    A girl will be less likely to put up resistance when she's attracted to a guy.

    But.. if you barely know her & haven't talked or flirted with her much, then she's not going to feel as comfortable with that.

    Ramp it up a bit. Get playful & make it fun!


    You'll see HUGE improvements in your success rate.


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    Default Re: Asking a girl out from work

    Girls at work you need to up the flirting, but in a very subtle way, so that other co-worker girls don't notice.

    Getting her number isn't the hard part, that's eazy cheezy.

    Next time you see her, make small-talk for a second, then tell her you think she's really cool and that you want to get to know her more. She'll give you her number, because it's friendly, and that's what friends do.

    The hard part is getting her to go out with you somewhere and text-game shtuff.

    Girls at work are all in competition kind of for a certain guy, especially if you're the shit, so when you do openly flirt with one girl, the entire office/workplace is going to hear about how you flirt with this girl. Girls don't like to be the center of workplace gossip, and if she does, than that doesn't sound like a quality girl to begin with.

    So mostly indirect flirting, DHV stories over time, playful kino, and lots of social proof is your secret to workplace hookups. When you want to hangout, then you isolate her and be direct and ask her away from co-workers.

    NOT IN FRONT OF OTHER CO-WORKERS.

    Workplace relationships are another story.

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    Default Re: Asking a girl out from work

    REALLY THINK ABOUT THIS FIRST BEFORE YOU ACT!!!!

    Apologies for the caps but I have been here before. If it ends bad, work will be sh*te. Suppose it all depends how serious you get. I saw a girl from work about 2 months. We ended on bad terms and it has caused rifts at work. I hope this goes better for you but use caution.

    As the saying goes; "Don't sh*t where you eat"
    PER ARDUA AD ALTA

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    Default Re: Asking a girl out from work

    Quote Originally Posted by Banners90 View Post
    REALLY THINK ABOUT THIS FIRST BEFORE YOU ACT!!!!

    Apologies for the caps but I have been here before. If it ends bad, work will be sh*te. Suppose it all depends how serious you get. I saw a girl from work about 2 months. We ended on bad terms and it has caused rifts at work. I hope this goes better for you but use caution.

    As the saying goes; "Don't sh*t where you eat"
    I second this actually,but I was AFC at the time,the work turned out really awkward,and I hat to work for almost another year with this awkwardness,eventual ly we forgot about this,but of course she told her friends and the whole store knew that I asked her out and she refused.She was the reason I actually got into PUA,but as I got deeper,I realized that I don't even like her that much.

    This doesn't mean that you shouldn't go for it,if there's a girl you like.Just be extra careful and make sure she's interested,look for IOI's.

    I decided that I would game the girls I work with,but will not date them.


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