Last weekend was the first time since pickup I actually got laid, it happend with a girl and we have been friends for years. This year I pulled myself out of her friendzone. Last time I got laid was before I started pu, with my girlfriend at the time.
I knew going to happen when she first asked me Saturday if I was home tonight when we actually would be meeting Sunday, then she made her point more clear by texing that she was really looking forward to seeing me again. I called her, she asked can I stay for the night because I have to be in your town next day, so I used an excuse she used on me before told her it's ok but you have to be a lesbian or I don't trust it.
That night we had a few drinks in the bar, watched a movie halfway, kissed, undressed and went to bed. I was not in the best shape because of the drinks and I guess she was a bit nervous as well. Now I am now unsure of how she feels about it and how to take care of it.
I do not really have experience with after care. She is an ambitious girl working hard, I'm not sure what she's expecting now. Do you still use the, "Let's meet and have fun, but we are not going to have sex" mentality, or is it ok to let her know I want to make her my cowgirl next time. Is she now expecting some extra attention, funny texting and set a new date quickly, or is it ok to not text her for a few days because I'm a busy guy as well and set a new date later?
Now I'm really overthinking shit, so it would be nice to have some tips for aftercare.