Back to the subject - I basically don't want to be the "Plan B" for her. Meaning I don't want her to think she could get me no matter what so if things don't work out with anyone else she's talking to, she can fall back to me for a relationship. That comes off as way too weak in my opinion. I'm sure we'll still continue to hook up whether she agrees to a relationship or not, but I just don't want her to think the offer for a relationship is on the table no matter what.
Either way, I'll update the post after I see her next. I haven't talked to her about chilling tomorrow, thinking I'll just hit her up last minute. I'm more spontaneous in that aspect so if she's free and we kick it, I'll update to let u know what happened. Thinking I'll hit her up for lunch or somethin.