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    Default Re: Make my FWB my Girlfriend

    Quote Originally Posted by whatiswrongwithme View Post
    Scorpios are supposed to be super sexual, devious and secretive. I know astrology is kind of ri diculous and illogical but ...

    Capricorn men are supposed to be logic and like to be the guy who is protective and strong in a way that makes women feel instinctually protective/safe. Also, supposed to be leader types and good with logic.
    Yea I'm not too big on astrology but it interests me a little. Just to clarify, I (the guy) am the scorpio and she is the capricorn.

    Back to the subject - I basically don't want to be the "Plan B" for her. Meaning I don't want her to think she could get me no matter what so if things don't work out with anyone else she's talking to, she can fall back to me for a relationship. That comes off as way too weak in my opinion. I'm sure we'll still continue to hook up whether she agrees to a relationship or not, but I just don't want her to think the offer for a relationship is on the table no matter what.

    Either way, I'll update the post after I see her next. I haven't talked to her about chilling tomorrow, thinking I'll just hit her up last minute. I'm more spontaneous in that aspect so if she's free and we kick it, I'll update to let u know what happened. Thinking I'll hit her up for lunch or somethin.

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    Default Re: Make my FWB my Girlfriend

    One other thing I thought I should add - I have basically 0 experience with relationships. I'm in my early 20s, slept with maybe 30 girls so far but never once had a serious relationship. Only flings and one night stands. I don't exactly know how my game should change from what I'm doing now to how I should act after I'm in a relationship.

    Hooking up with random chicks is great, a good confidence booster and all but there's no real connection. It's a quick bang or 2 or 20 then onto the next girl. That's why I'm looking for a relationship right now. I feel like my life is in an endless disconnect. I find a girl, hook up a few times, then never talk to her again. With this chick its different, someone that I feel I can talk to - actual chemistry.

    Sorry for the long emo post, I'm just coming back from a party and kinda drunk right now. Figured its as good of a time as any to clear my mind.

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    Default Re: Make my FWB my Girlfriend

    OMG you are the scorpio? Ok so capricorn women are ...very fond of being a certain way...

    I know a few capricorn girls and ...well first...question...i s she a girl who likes to be in "control?"

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    Default Re: Make my FWB my Girlfriend

    I'm REALLY strange but I'm all excited for you but at the same time...if I were you i'd be super careful about ever letting her know you want to be in a relationship with her. BUT kinda show some vulnerable moments that contrast from the less romantic and more " sexual."

    Being drunk is always a solid excuse for a quick text. BUT this is something that honestly only works on girls if its SUPER clear she has those feelings (romantic ones).

    Do you know if she is guarded as a person? Is she good with emotions or does she keep things bottled up inside?

    Does she ever talk about movies she's cried in or songs that make her cry?

    (This sounds psycho and I realize this so i feel semi-awkward writing this stuff...but it's oddly refreshing to a girl when a guy is somehow a combination of sensitive but secretly sensitive with an outward appearance of being impossible to reach)

    And a commitment phoebe often becomes the guy girls want in a way since you make her the "EXCEPTION to the rule" when you do ask her out.

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    Default Re: Make my FWB my Girlfriend

    BTW I totally was not saying to cry or confess your liking etc. I just was talking about generally the concept of being a combination of sensitive and strong/tough on the exterior.'

    What do you guys do together?
    Do you cuddle?
    Does she seem like a girl who has been through a lot in her life?

    I honestly don;t think you should ever rush to ask her out but rather wait for her to really reach for you . At the end of the d

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    Default Re: Make my FWB my Girlfriend

    BTW I totally was not saying to cry or confess your liking etc. I just was talking about generally the concept of being a combination of sensitive and strong/tough on the exterior.'

    What do you guys do together?
    Do you cuddle?
    Does she seem like a girl who has been through a lot in her life?

    I honestly don;t think you should ever rush to ask her out but rather wait for her to really reach for you . At the end of the day though only you know in your heart what you feel...and with this stuff...either you and her are on the same page or not..but just know whatever happens girls really are everywhere and you will find the girl you are going to find even more suits you if this doesn't work out.

    It's OK to hurt but not to hurt inside and be in the habit of thinking her being gone is the be-all-end-all...sorry I ramble but I just think that intense connection of anything to do w/ love is the best & most comforting thing ever.

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    Default Re: Make my FWB my Girlfriend

    As said previously avoid telling for now.the opportunity may come up soon.when it does then may transition.be cautious and make sure you're ready.don't be surprised if they try setting rules like that latina girl i knew(don't do x or that x)..in a nutshell in your dynamic don't push things hard for now

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    Default Re: Make my FWB my Girlfriend

    Quote Originally Posted by whatiswrongwithme View Post
    OMG you are the scorpio? Ok so capricorn women are ...very fond of being a certain way...

    I know a few capricorn girls and ...well first...question...i s she a girl who likes to be in "control?"
    Oh quite the opposite, its very clear she likes the guy to take charge.

    Quote Originally Posted by whatiswrongwithme View Post
    I'm REALLY strange but I'm all excited for you but at the same time...if I were you i'd be super careful about ever letting her know you want to be in a relationship with her. BUT kinda show some vulnerable moments that contrast from the less romantic and more " sexual."

    Being drunk is always a solid excuse for a quick text. BUT this is something that honestly only works on girls if its SUPER clear she has those feelings (romantic ones).

    Do you know if she is guarded as a person? Is she good with emotions or does she keep things bottled up inside?

    Does she ever talk about movies she's cried in or songs that make her cry?

    (This sounds psycho and I realize this so i feel semi-awkward writing this stuff...but it's oddly refreshing to a girl when a guy is somehow a combination of sensitive but secretly sensitive with an outward appearance of being impossible to reach)

    And a commitment phoebe often becomes the guy girls want in a way since you make her the "EXCEPTION to the rule" when you do ask her out.
    Not that make her cry, but instead talk about how beautiful certain songs or movies or scenes are.

    Quote Originally Posted by whatiswrongwithme View Post
    BTW I totally was not saying to cry or confess your liking etc. I just was talking about generally the concept of being a combination of sensitive and strong/tough on the exterior.'

    What do you guys do together?
    Do you cuddle?
    Does she seem like a girl who has been through a lot in her life?

    I honestly don;t think you should ever rush to ask her out but rather wait for her to really reach for you . At the end of the day though only you know in your heart what you feel...and with this stuff...either you and her are on the same page or not..but just know whatever happens girls really are everywhere and you will find the girl you are going to find even more suits you if this doesn't work out.

    It's OK to hurt but not to hurt inside and be in the habit of thinking her being gone is the be-all-end-all...sorry I ramble but I just think that intense connection of anything to do w/ love is the best & most comforting thing ever.
    Quote Originally Posted by HardRock View Post
    As said previously avoid telling for now.the opportunity may come up soon.when it does then may transition.be cautious and make sure you're ready.don't be surprised if they try setting rules like that latina girl i knew(don't do x or that x)..in a nutshell in your dynamic don't push things hard for now
    Well, I decided to take your guys' advice and didn't ask her. After looking back at yesterday's date, I feel I should have brought it up. I'm gonna bring it up for sure next time. Lemme tell you what happened:

    We started the date around noon and got lunch at the beach. Walked around the boardwalk checking out other chicks and rating them 1-10. Made out on the grass for a while and just chilled there. We were gonna find a place to have sex there but everywhere was way too crowded so we ended up just going to my place.

    Got to my place, had really good sex, we showered together then just chilled for a bit in my bed and cuddled. This is when I was gonna ask her - when we were talking during cuddling. I decided to listen to you guys and held back and didn't bring it up. We grabbed some dinner later and a few beers. We ate - went to bed, started watching porn together and had sex again, then went to sleep.

    The next morning (this morning) she had to leave for work at 5:30AM. On the way to walking her to her car I said something cute that made her laugh and she said, "I don't get why you're not my boyfriend." Obviously since she was leaving for work it wasn't the right time to ask her so I just said, "one day". and left it at that.

    Overall a great date, I feel it confirms that I should ask her next time we go out. Still just don't know the best way to word it that shows confidence and me taking charge, but it'll come to me before our next date.


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