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    Default Make my FWB my Girlfriend

    I have a FWB who I'd like to make my girlfriend. I get a lot of girls but I like this girl a lot and really connect with her. A while ago she said to me "what if I asked you to be exclusive with me, what would you say?" and at that point i wasn't down so I told her I didn't want to settle down with anyone just yet. We do go on dates and do BF/GF things.

    I was thinking next time we go out I'll say to her, "Remember when you asked me what I would do if you wanted to be exclusive" and she'd say yes, and I'd say, "well, now I'd probably consider it". Does this sound alright to you guys? The only thing is she's dating (hooking up with) 3-4 guys right now so I'm not exactly sure if she'd be down. We've been hooking up for the last 6 months so its lasted a while.

    If she asks me why my feelings changed I'd tell her the truth - I'd rather be in a relationship then hook up with random chicks all the time. She know's I date around, and I know she does. We're both okay with it.

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    Default Re: Make my FWB my Girlfriend

    Don't bring it up that way.
    Be straightforward & confident when you mention it.

    Also- do it when you're in the middle of having an amazing time, when her energy is high & her mood is elevated at it's peak.
    OR, right after sex while you're still in the "post-coital bliss".

    Timing is gonna be one of the key components.





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    Default Re: Make my FWB my Girlfriend

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    Don't bring it up that way.
    Be straightforward & confident when you mention it.

    Also- do it when you're in the middle of having an amazing time, when her energy is high & her mood is elevated at it's peak.
    OR, right after sex while you're still in the "post-coital bliss".

    Timing is gonna be one of the key components.





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    After sex sounds perfect, thanks for the tip! She likes to cuddle a lot after sex (what girl doesn't) so that's perfect timing. How would you recommend wording it? Mainly just seems kinda strange on my part bc she just asked me about a month ago (it was a *hypothetical* question according to her lol). Should I just be like, "I want you to be my girl" or what?

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    Default Re: Make my FWB my Girlfriend

    Take it easy if she brings it up again then make things exclusive.no matter how you frame it in your dynamic since you kind of blew it off the first time, she may roll back.this may make things awkward.if its about her sleeping with others.there are other ways

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    Default Re: Make my FWB my Girlfriend

    Don't say it to her yet.

    I know this sounds weird...but girls (most) enjoy wondering about what is going to happen...to be honest...there are certain details that would make it a lot more beneficial for you if it was specifically about HER and what she is like...

    I can tell you this: EVERY girl is 100% similar in this one thing: we all love being the "exception to the rule..." and even if she said that to you (the hypothetical) it COULD just be her being playful and flirty but not necessarily ready to be committed...now...do esn't mean she isn't ready either but it depends...

    Does she talk about romance and relationships in general?
    What kind of personal conversations have you and her had?

    Ok this is random but if you try it and it works I'll be happy I said it...you should do this...when you text her suggest a random game of "truth or truth..." the rules are you each ask each other personal questions back and forth...crazier the better...and be playful. see where it goes.

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    Default Re: Make my FWB my Girlfriend

    With me and her, we talk about everything. I mean like everything. Like romance, relationships (she definitely says she's looking for one), sex, work, friends, etc. That's the main reason I like this chick - she's really open and easy to talk to about literally anything. I don't think things could ever get awkward between us judging by both of our personality types.

    As for the "truth or truth" game, I feel like I know everything about her already so there's not much I could ask her. We talk about sex a lot, and we have sex a lot. We've shared some of our deepest darkest secrets that not many other people know.

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    Default Re: Make my FWB my Girlfriend

    oooo! Nice. The fact that you guys share secrets is ridiculously important. This is an even weirder question...and I know how illogical and weird this sounds...but what sign are you (astrology) and what sign is she?

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    Default Re: Make my FWB my Girlfriend

    if she has stuck around this time she may really like you, but then watch out or else you may totally blow it too soon

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    Default Re: Make my FWB my Girlfriend

    Quote Originally Posted by whatiswrongwithme View Post
    oooo! Nice. The fact that you guys share secrets is ridiculously important. This is an even weirder question...and I know how illogical and weird this sounds...but what sign are you (astrology) and what sign is she?
    I'm a scorpio, she's a capricorn. I still havent seen her since I posted this but I'm thinking of hitting her up tomorrow. If things go well I'll probably ask her then - most likely after sex.

    Quote Originally Posted by HardRock View Post
    if she has stuck around this time she may really like you, but then watch out or else you may totally blow it too soon
    Yeah we've talked about how FWB type relationships usually last only a month or so in our past experiences and how we're both surprised everythings been goin good for so long. But I don't get what you're saying tho, are you saying I shouldn't ask her or I should?

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    Default Re: Make my FWB my Girlfriend

    Scorpios are supposed to be super sexual, devious and secretive. I know astrology is kind of ri diculous and illogical but ...

    Capricorn men are supposed to be logic and like to be the guy who is protective and strong in a way that makes women feel instinctually protective/safe. Also, supposed to be leader types and good with logic.


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