I have a FWB who I'd like to make my girlfriend. I get a lot of girls but I like this girl a lot and really connect with her. A while ago she said to me "what if I asked you to be exclusive with me, what would you say?" and at that point i wasn't down so I told her I didn't want to settle down with anyone just yet. We do go on dates and do BF/GF things.
I was thinking next time we go out I'll say to her, "Remember when you asked me what I would do if you wanted to be exclusive" and she'd say yes, and I'd say, "well, now I'd probably consider it". Does this sound alright to you guys? The only thing is she's dating (hooking up with) 3-4 guys right now so I'm not exactly sure if she'd be down. We've been hooking up for the last 6 months so its lasted a while.
If she asks me why my feelings changed I'd tell her the truth - I'd rather be in a relationship then hook up with random chicks all the time. She know's I date around, and I know she does. We're both okay with it.