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Thread: Need help with my terrible text game!

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    Default Need help with my terrible text game!

    I got matched with this incredibly gorgeous woman on Tinder and started talking to her. I have 0 text game, but
    I decided to give it a shot anyway.

    However, it got kinda rocky pretty fast...


    Me: Will I have to convert to Islam to marry you? (her name was Arabic, in retrospect it was a terrible opener)
    Her: You could also put on the veil.
    Me: Oh I wouldn't want to deprive you of my beautiful hair.
    Her: I'm confused, are you flirting with me or are you insulting me?


    Right then I was seriously confused. I now realize that the opener is idiotic, and can come off as racist.
    Anyhoo, after much thought I went with this:


    Me: Insulting you is the least of my intentions.
    Her: What's your intention?
    Me: Getting to know you better. Right now I only have a name and a beautiful smile. (I really didn't want to compliment her but any other option sounded like suicide)
    Her: To you're first question, the answer is yes! Ahaha
    Her(10 min later): To answer*

    I haven't replied yet as it is the middle of the night. (I took between 10 and 20 min for each reply, while she always texted back almost instantly. Her last msg was around 2:30 AM )

    Even though I'm convinced that I blew it, I want to reply just for the sake of practicing.
    I wanted to follow with something along the lines of :
    Me: Text me here XXX-XXX-XXXX, it'll be easier.
    But I'm not sure about it...

    What could I have done better (other than the opening) ? Any ideas on how to follow this?

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    Default Re: Need help with my terrible text game!

    Hey mate, don't be afraid to text her back immediately. It's not a bad thing to do a couple of 'rapid fire' texts - in fact, if you take too long to respond to EVERY text message, she'll probably lose interest. I'd probably stop opening with that line hahaha - it's definitely racist! Also, you mentioned marriage in your very first sentence to her... what's wrong with that goes without saying haha.

    If she's liked you on tinder, it means that she's already got some level of physical attraction towards you. So just play your game! Keep it light and don't push for a meet-up too quickly.
    Thommo

    If you walk in knowing that you're THE MAN, then you've already won the game.

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    Default Re: Need help with my terrible text game!

    Quote Originally Posted by Mythian View Post
    Even though I'm convinced that I blew it
    It's never over until she either stops texting back or explicitly says to not text her again. Until that happens, the game's on.
    Live life free.

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    Default Re: Need help with my terrible text game!

    You didn't blow it; she's flirting with you. Just say, "OK, so convince me to marry you hahaha!"
    Always leave her better than you found her.

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    Default Re: Need help with my terrible text game!

    She likes you dude. But if your saying shit like you blew it then your possibly gonna lose it anyways
    "I've never seen anyone pull as quickly or as efficiently as you"
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