So we met in meetup. First meetup I didn't get much chance to talk with her but the second time we started talking and really seemed to hit it off and frankly it was freaky how much we had in common. I was planning on asking her for her number towards the end of the night but she beat me to it and asked me for my number (don't read too much into this she's extremely alpha for a girl). So I called her up a couple days later and asked her if she wanted to go to a dance class. I didn't say explicitly that it was a date but every time I've ever asked a girl to hang out 1 on 1 they've always assumed it was a date.
So at the class we have a good time. Toward the end she sent me a friend request using her phone and at the end of the 'date' I go to kiss her and she says that she thought we were just hanging out as friends and hopes she didn't lead me on. The next day I notice she put on her Facebook profile how much fun she had at the class.
She wants to be friends with me and would make a great pivot too and if I can't date her I would want that but I'd much rather have her as my girlfriend. Any thoughts on what I should do?