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    Default Re: I FREAKIN' DID IT!!!! (What next?)

    I agree with vicodin. If you feel you have nothing to lose, then use her as 'batting practice.' Besides, a girl who initiates text with you is a huge IOI. I speak from experience. The more women you deal with, the more you will see a trend that majority will not initiate text. I mean just look on the forums with all the problems guys are having with dealing with phone flakes and getting responses. For a woman to initiate, it means you are on the top of her mind. Again, strong IOI and they must really like you. That will be a small percent of all the fish you round up, so appreciate what you got.

    Having said that, what a waste if you just cut her off. Having a bunch of HB8+ (even as friends) always helps to maintain social proof. Remember, beautiful women attract other beautiful women. When a woman sees you with a beautiful woman, she will wonder what you are all about.

    As for the vegas part, I do know a girl who is extremely hot, does not drink and is conservative when it comes to sex, and goes to Vegas once a month. Vegas is a favorite spot regardless. Something in Vegas for everyone. Every girl is different and you won't really get to know her as a person if you cut things off too quickly.

    HOWEVER, her letting you finger her and then telling you she wants to wait for marriage, THAT sounds completely off. I mean...what is the point? Sounds like some major LMR due to wrong environment.

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    Default Re: I FREAKIN' DID IT!!!! (What next?)

    I went with all of your guys' advice and I'm going to play this out like "batting practice." I texted her back yesterday, we talked and flirted as usual. She texted me first about 10 mins ago asking what my plans were for the day, so I went ahead and "pitched" the date (I didn't ask her to hang, I told her we would be hanging out later as I am busy this morning). I know she has work til late anyways and we would "maybe hang out after if I was lucky." <-- Pretty much a yes since she says it all the time and I ignore it

    My questions are:

    1) Is ignoring the "you're lucky" part of the text a good thing? How should I respond?

    2) I'm going for a Get blown, or get blown-out mindset for this meet up. Attraction doesn't last forever. How do I go about getting back to her place as mine is a no-go for a f-close?

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    Default Re: I FREAKIN' DID IT!!!! (What next?)

    1) Is ignoring the "you're lucky" part of the text a good thing? How should I respond?
    No right or wrong. I always say, when in doubt don't answer. But if it were me (being a wise ass) I would've told her "I'm feeling lucky. Maybe I'll win the lottery." (implying that there is something you hold more value lol)...But that is just me.

    2) I'm going for a Get blown, or get blown-out mindset for this meet up. Attraction doesn't last forever. How do I go about getting back to her place as mine is a no-go for a f-close?
    True. If you want to do the whole f-close method, keep the momentum-before-it-fades-out, then attraction in that sense doesn't last forever. But from my experience, things will level out, and when it does, the girl will either be sold on you...or not. If she is sold on you, you don't have to work so hard. But keep in mind that you also need to be establishing comfort and fractionate between the two. Too much attraction, you will come off as a player looking just to get into her pants and her Anti-slut defenses will come up.

    First, my advice to you is you should have a contingent plan as well in case her place is a no-go. You need to know her living situation (parents, roomates, etc). Hope that is not the case.

    Christian Hudson had a report out on creating plausible deniability when bringing a girl to your place. When you bring a girl to your place, in her mind, she knows the direction where this is heading and her ASD might come up. So through conversation you find out what she likes and tell her what you like and tell her you want to show her something at your place (on your computer or w/e) so now she has a "legit" reason to go. I would take that same principle and reverse it on her using her place.

    The one time I pulled this off. I met a stripper on my trip back home who wanted to do something after. We couldn't do my place because I was staying with my mom. She likes smoking weed and is a pothead. I don't smoke period. But I used it to my advantage. Basically told her I'll get the weed, she can gave my share while I get a natural high off her pu$$y at her place (an old inside joke established earlier). I don't recommend saying that lol but you get the idea.

    It is really really tough when you don't have a decent place. Another poster a while back had a same problem where he couldn't do either her place or his place. That is why a lot of PUA's have their own "stab pads" and live independently.

    Where you f-close a girl does make a difference in her LMR. You don't want to make it harder for yourself. Your other options is spending money for a place (hotel motel holiday inn) or ask a friend to borrow his or set up your ride like an SUV to accomodate for some backseat action, but since you are not invested in this girl, I know you are not fond of idea of spending money. But depends how bad you want it. Regardless, this is something you need to think about for future f-close, not just this girl. Location, location, location. Bad location and you can't do your vocation.


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