It's been 3 loooong years since a bad breakup and I've been slowly working on my game. Last week I got this girl's number (solid HB8) on Sunday night. Went from texting to sexting in around 45 minutes.
Pushed for the meet up later that day, with the intention of finding if she clicked with ME. Kiss closed and went on my way with a false time-constraint. She texts me first 20 mins after first date, I push for meet up again on Tuesday night, she accepts happily!
Long story short, making-out in my car at the park, touching, all that good stuff, but she had to take off for a personal problem. I thought it was BS but she was close enough on her phone that I could overhear the call. She sexts me after the date and I make my decision to go for the f-close the next time we meet; no ifs, ands, or buts.
Wednesday night, she texts ME and pushes HARD for a late night meet up . We meet back at the same park and after making out, touching, fingering, I get the f-close fail, miserably. She stops and gives me the speech about "I wanna wait til marriage.......blah, blah, blah...it's not you...I just think this park is creepy..." So I calmly tell her if she's uncomfortable, she wouldn't hurt my feelings if she took off. She says ok, tries to make out with me again while holding me around the waist so I can't get back to my car. (?)
I've been keeping up with a TON of all of your guys' posts so I know either my game was off or she was being "truthful" (yah right).
Before I get to my questions, I just wanted to say that................ .................... .....I FEEL FUxKING GREAT!!!!! This was the first time I (successfully) applied everything that I've learned from you guys since the bad breakup. I don't regret going for the f-close, and I do NOT feel bad in any sense of the word about being rejected. The first thought that went in my head when she gave me the speech was: I could literally have any other girl in this exact same position, so don't sweat it. I cannot put into words how proud of myself I was that I went for it!!!!
1) Did I handle the situation correctly by letting her know if she was uncomfortable she could bounce even though she said "It wasn't me making her feel like that." ?
2) Where do I go from here? I'm DEFINETELY going to game other chicks, but should I still keep up with her? Text her or should I wait it out?