As I said before I am just back to the game so please correct and help me with this case.
I was walking back home his afternoon when I saw a chick who was walking in front of me and was twisting her fingers all the time! I thought it could make a good indirect opener so I approached and said "Hey I saw you keep twisting your fingers. Not only your fingers are very elastic but I also think only emotional people do it!" ( I made up this sheit!). At first she was a bit resistant but then she opened up and told me that she was German and that she was from blah blah and she had PhD in something! I created a good banter with her and then number closed her and said bye. Since I had not done any text game for months I was not sure what to do so I decided that since she was a kind of academic/clever girl I better text her differently. Here is the stream, so please tell me what was good and what was not (please pay attention that she did not ask me any question until my 2nd last message!):
Me: Hey clever Sue, It was nice meeting you this afternoon. How do you say "Good Evening" in German? [8:23pm]
HB: Guten Abden [8:35pm]
Me: Then "Guten Abden Ame" to you! Is it hard to learn German? [8:47pm]
HB: :-D Guten Abden to you too. Well, it's closely related to English so the vocab is relatively easy bu the grammar is a bitch. (from here me and her sent messages every 5 minutes).
ME: (Trying to DHV). When my German friends speak German it sounds like music to my ears. Wish I could add German to my collection of languages. I can say few words like "Ich Heisse <my name>".
HB: That's pretty good. Most people only know swear words :-D
Me: Really? I thought swear words belong to the advanced level ;-) How many languages do you speak?
HB: Oh No! Swear words are the first think people ask for. I speak English,French,Germa n and Spanish.
Me: Pretty good and quite different to the languages I speak. By the way I am making a yummy chicken salad. If you teach me some German can I pay by salad? ;-)
HB: Which languages do you speak? Sounds like a good deal to me.
Me: Persian, Turkish, Arabic, Russian and English. You are lucky because my Italian foods are popular. Can you cook?
HB: Yes, enough to survive and not poison anyone I am more of a baking queen.
Me: Feel free to use me to test your new products! I am off to bed, have a good night!
( I said goodbye because A- I thought I had texted too much, B-I felt she was getting bored/tired C- To break the rapport).
As you see she is very rigid and so I could not push the convo to a personal/flirty level much. Sounds like she takes a bit of effort to open up properly.
My questions are:
1- Any advice? Where was good and where was nit?
2- When I was number closing her we were in front of a wine bar and I said "give me your number, maybe we can pop into this wine bar sometime and have a drink". I am thinking of asking her to meet me there on Friday night. Is it OK or is it too soon?
3- How can I make my intention clear and avoid landing in her friend zone?