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    Sidechain is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Indirect Opening when Girls are Busy?

    Quick and simple question.
    If I want to open a set using an indirect opener, and the group is already into a conversation.... someone is speaking at the time, what is the best way to open here?

    Should I wait behind the group until he/she finishes speaking? This breaks the 3s rule.

    Should I interrupt the person? Then I look like a douche.

    What is the best way to go about this?

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    Default Re: Indirect Opening when Girls are Busy?

    Add on: I'm sort of a newbie. Whenever I see this happening in a set, I never actually open it and just walk right by. Any ideas guys?

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    Default Re: Indirect Opening when Girls are Busy?

    Quote Originally Posted by Sidechain View Post
    Quick and simple question.
    If I want to open a set using an indirect opener, and the group is already into a conversation.... someone is speaking at the time, what is the best way to open here?

    Should I wait behind the group until he/she finishes speaking? This breaks the 3s rule.

    Should I interrupt the person? Then I look like a douche.

    What is the best way to go about this?
    Doesn't have to be indirect,also if they're talking,even if you chat them up they shift their attention to you.

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    Default Re: Indirect Opening when Girls are Busy?

    Try "accidentally" bumping into your target. You can interrupt to "apologize" & throw in come flirty humor in the process...
    Then as you're walking away, just mention that you'll come back to chat her up in just a few.
    Then give her a genuine smile & a wink as you walk off...

    Go get a drink or talk to the DJ or whatever... then re-approach in 10 minutes or so.
    You've already told her you were coming back; so unless she specifically tells you NOT to, she's basically given you permission to do so.

    See what I mean?
    Easy!




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