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    Default Are chicks crazy or am I doing it wrong?

    Hey guys,


    Recently I get numbers and do a reasonable text game but suddenly the girls stop responding. Like in this post I shared one of my texting streams with you and T-Mal said it was a good texting. However suddenly the girl became unresponsive and then flaked on me.

    Again yesterday I number closed a girl and texted her and she turned off her radio too:

    http://i58.tinypic.com/30aq13d.png

    Are chicks being crazy and disappear for no reason or am I doing it wrong?

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    Default Re: Are chicks crazy or am I doing it wrong?

    She was probably busy or didn't get the text... Don't always assume that she is purposely ignoring you.
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    Default Re: Are chicks crazy or am I doing it wrong?

    Hey aussie, texting seems ok, give it some time for her to respond like marvilo said. I like to ask what her schedule is like to get a better idea than pinning a time on her. If she doesn't respond, wait two weeks before texting again. You don't want to look needy.

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    Default Re: Are chicks crazy or am I doing it wrong?

    something a lot of guys don't realize is that there is more to game than just making the girl laugh. this applies to text game as well.

    ultimately, while humor does help your game, its way overused by too many guys. even to the point that girls have come to almost expect every guy to "entertain her"

    what is ultimately more important is that you dhv and flip attraction switches and display who you are.

    if you're not particularly funny in real life, why try to be a comedian when you text?

    I used to be a guy who would entertain girls, but it got me no where. I was just the "funny friend". the reason was simple, instead of using my value to get girls, I was using humor that didn't always fit well with my personality.

    while t-mals texting guide is good for getting into the mindset of being more playful over text, it has one big problem.
    most of the texts he mentions aren't congruent for anyone but him

    you have to develop your own method. not everything that works for one pua will work for another.

    another good example, the whole "pretend your gay" routine from the game will not work for just anyone. (and I could never do it because I have more self respect than that)

    the point I'm really getting at is that anything you do has to be congruent with who you are. odds are the reason those girls stopped texting you is because you failed some subtle congruence test. (or maybe they met some other really attractive guys in real life and decided they would choose them over you)

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    Default Re: Are chicks crazy or am I doing it wrong?

    You also want to text for a reason. This is all fluff. Just text to set up a date or get an emotion. Texting is an easy way to get in the friend zone because its like you're always there.

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    Default Re: Are chicks crazy or am I doing it wrong?

    I use texting as an integral part of my game... everything from setting a meet up, to being fun & flirty, to escalating conversations to a sexual level BEFORE the meet up.

    But my texing style is exactly the same as my "in-person personality"... so everything flows naturally & I can tell when I need to back off of humor & be more genuine... or start ramping up sexual topics, or just being fun & completely random.

    There are lots of clues that girls will give based on their response time; how long or short the texts are that she's sending; and what the vibe she's giving off is.

    Sometimes girls DO get busy... like getting hair or nails done, so they can't reply back right away.

    Just make sure you never project any sort of neediness.

    There's nothing wrong with letting a girl know you're interested in her & as MORE THAN friends... and you SHOULD do that. Just don't get overly clingy or mushy early on. That will freak her out & send her running.



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    Default Re: Are chicks crazy or am I doing it wrong?

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post
    another good example, the whole "pretend your gay" routine from the game will not work for just anyone. (and I could never do it because I have more self respect than that)
    There are actually a few people who think I am gay from how I talk or how I dress so fashionably better than other guys. For guys, I make it clear from the start that I am not gay. For girls, welllll I leave that for them to find out. Perfect for destroying defenses and getting right to their core.

    As was stated previously, and I would like to add an additional statement, you can't pull off something that is not you. I'm able to pull off the gay tactic at times because that is how my personality can sometimes be interpreted. If you try to be something that you are not, then you will easily come off as fake. Originality and honesty always wins in the end.

    Oh, and on one last note, you really need to stop asking so many questions in your texts. Take Courage Wolf's advice, he knows what works best (but not all the time though).

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    Default Re: Are chicks crazy or am I doing it wrong?

    Thanks guys,

    I have never seen or heard that a chick suggest a date on her first text! This happens to me but that text becomes her last text too! I texted her and "told" her that I wanted to meet her at x day and y time but I did not get any response. I have decided to move on with this one but my intention is to learn and improve my text game and that's why I am so surprised that what was in my text that turned off a girl in 1 minute?!!

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    Default Re: Are chicks crazy or am I doing it wrong?

    my intention is to learn and improve my text game and that's why I am so surprised that what was in my text that turned off a girl in 1 minute?!!
    don't think too much about it. there are any number of reasons that she wouldn't text back.

    don't take it personally when girls flake.

    when it happens, I just tell myself, "there's always another girl"

    not to mention that with online dating the flake rate is significantly higher. I think its because women are scared that you aren't who you said you were. versus when you've already met in person, they have a good idea of what you'll be like when they meet you again. this tiny amount of predictability is what really makes getting dates with girls you've met so much easier than meeting up with ones you've only texted online.


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