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    Ok so I am 21 years old and everytime I get in bed with a girl and even when I don't have any intentions on having sex with her I still get a boner. I don't know how I can provent this. Befor I even have my jeans off I start getting hard. I don't know if me masturbaring every other day is a cause of this or what

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    Default Re: sleeping in bed with a girl

    Lmao why are you sleeping in the same bed as girls you aren't trying to have sex with? That's like putting food on a plate with no intention of eating it. I'd say you probably are used to getting a hard on as soon as you get in bed, that or just not enough female contact
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    Default Re: sleeping in bed with a girl

    Well this is at the beginning of relationships. Wate h cuddle and watch movies but later on I do plan on sleeping with her. She don't wanna move fast

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    Default Re: sleeping in bed with a girl

    Don't try to hide that. Push it up against her. Show her she turns you on. Male to female communication bro

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    Default Re: sleeping in bed with a girl

    Like I explained it to her that she is verry atractive and that she turns me on. Nothin I can help just how us mails r I gyes

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    Default Re: sleeping in bed with a girl

    Now a nother question but please don't judge me. Now when I do get hard in bed with her I do precum a lil bit. Is that normal. I tryed researching about it but nothing came up. I asume it is. Its not like I'm ejaculating

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    Default Re: sleeping in bed with a girl

    Yes both are normal and there's no reason to hide a boner. In fact she'll probably be turned on by knowing you're turned on.

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    Default Re: sleeping in bed with a girl

    I'm going to have to respectfully disagree with the above comments. Yes I would normally agree that it would turn her on and what have you but when she doesn't want to be turned on that's just going to scare her and then you won't even be able to watch movies with her anymore. I say just tuck it behind the waistband, precum is normal just try not to get any on her and I'm sure she will appreciate that you are trying to keep sex out of the equation for a bit. Start escalation maybe with tickling or something light hearted.

    In regards to the previous comments, you have to understand that there must be escalation before he just flaunts a boner. Without it you might as well just whip it out and hit her in the face with it because it's going to have the same effect.
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    Default Re: sleeping in bed with a girl

    Not that I can imagine getting in a bed and not sleeping with a woman...but whenever a woman gives me a boner I make sure that she knows it. "Damn, girl you are giving me man problems." or I will visibly adjust my erection. I'm a man, having a natural reaction to a woman that I find attractive. Why would I hide that?
    They will frequently respond in kind. A woman doesn't have a problem with you being physically attracted to her.

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    Default Re: sleeping in bed with a girl

    Quote Originally Posted by daltonbrayall View Post
    I'm going to have to respectfully disagree with the above comments. Yes I would normally agree that it would turn her on and what have you but when she doesn't want to be turned on that's just going to scare her and then you won't even be able to watch movies with her anymore. I say just tuck it behind the waistband, precum is normal just try not to get any on her and I'm sure she will appreciate that you are trying to keep sex out of the equation for a bit. Start escalation maybe with tickling or something light hearted.

    In regards to the previous comments, you have to understand that there must be escalation before he just flaunts a boner. Without it you might as well just whip it out and hit her in the face with it because it's going to have the same effect.
    Well, naturally we're assuming there has to be SOME if he's in bed with the girls. Men and women laying in bed together is a sexual signal. That's the logical thinking behind it anyway


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