We were engaged up until about 6 weeks ago. She was cheating so I left her. Its worth it to try to fix this. I don't necessarily want that to become the debate.
Anyways... I've read all the posts, and actually been spending a lot of time on my inner game. I listen to like, 5 Arash Dibazar sessions a day. I've been working out literally has hard and often as a man could possibly work out and dropping weight. I look different, dress different, and am now significantly more alpha. People have noticed. However I don't want to fold like a piece of paper if/when I see her. I went no contact for 6 weeks now.
Here's the situation...She cold messaged me last night at 12:30am last night. It said:
Hey Stephen, please hear me out,
I truly am sorry for everything that happened and how it happened. I understand if you do not wish to speak to me but I know I left some stuff at your house that is really important for me to get back. It doesn't matter how I receive it whether i meet you to get it or you giving it to *** or even you putting it outside but all I ask which I know I shouldn't ask you for anything at this point but all I ask is for you to let me get it back. Please just respond and let me know or let *** or ***** know. Sorry to ask but please Stephen.
Here's the kicker... there is NOTHING left of her's at my house. I dropped off everything 6 weeks ago, and then anything that was forgotten (very little), was given to her by my roomate 4 weeks ago. There is NOTHING here and she knows it. She is a 10, and not used to being shut out like have done to her. I'm pretty sure every ex in her life has chased her after the fact. Everything in me tells me this is attention seeking behavior and an IOI with a justification. She could have just messaged my roomate like last time if not.
What's my best move. Thanks!