So my story is, I went abroad to study, found a girl I really liked. I met her a few months before having to go back home. There's something about her that really draws me to her and I know she really liked me too.
Eventually we decided to try and go for the long distance as I want to move back not too far from where she's at, though those plans haven't really been figured out yet as there's a big puzzle for that to work out, so I don't know when exactly it will happen.
At first it went really well, and she would spontaneously call me and tell me how much she missed me. At some point we decided it might be best not to be officially together as she got back to school, was busy and had less time to talk.
Early February I then bought tickets to go back and visit (I'm not going just to see her, but equally much to see all the friends I made there).
3-4 weeks ago she then started getting more distant and I could tell something was up. She would barely answer my messages, avoided skyping, so I stopped texting in order to get her to take initiative. One day she wrote me and said she didn't feel the same way I did, and I wrote, then I wasn't sure how I felt about meeting up with her when I'm going back to see everyone else if that was how the situation was. She said she missed me, but at the same time I wasn't there. Recently we've barely had any contact. I contacted her briefly just to congratulate her on her birthday.
The thing is, I really like this girl. I want it to work out between the two of us, which is why I wanted some feedback. I was thinking about sending her a message 3-4 days before going back saying, "Look, you're a nice girl, and it'd be stupid if this keeps us from talking. I've traveled so far, so we might as well hang out as friends" to let her think I'm all fine with the situation, though I really like this girl.
Please, let me know how you guys feel about that idea.