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Thread: buyers remorse or what?

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    Default buyers remorse or what?

    Okay I won't get into it that much, but I started talking to this girl amy and I got her number the first day I started talking to her. That same day our text conversation lasted 193 texts long and the second day over a hundred texts. I know she wants to text because she's giving me all the texting iois. Then on the third day her friend texted me saying that I was annoying her so I texted Amy saying that I understand that I was annoying her so I'll stop texting her. And all she replied with was a "cool". What do you guys think, something like buyers remorse?
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    Default Re: buyers remorse or what?

    WAAAAY too many texts bro. It's about quality not quantity. You have to get somewhere for it to be buyers remorse. You basically gave her everything right off the bat and provided no challenge. If a girl is texting me a hundred times a day I know she doesn't have anything else or anything better to do and I find it an unattractive trait. It is probably the same for her.
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    Default Re: buyers remorse or what?

    I'll admit that I will spend a SHITLOAD of time texting a girl I'm interested in. I mean, I break all the "texting rules" as far as how much you're "supposed to" text her.

    I've done more than 100 messages in the same day I meet a girl on MANY occasions. BUT... my texting style is flirtatious & I escalate sexually.... so the more I text, the more hooked she gets.

    But you CAN absolutely overdo it with texting.

    I wouldn't recommend that just anyone follow my texting pattern exactly the same as I do it, unless they have solid game.... because I get shit-tested all the time!

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    Default Re: buyers remorse or what?

    Earlier in the day I was typing up an answer to this, but it got deleted. Follow the advice up above, but take special note of what T-mal said. Texting should not be used to build attraction UNLESS you're a great texter. It should be used to maintain attraction, and to setup meetups. On some occasions depending on how interested the woman is, a lot of guys are able to successfully sexually escalate a text conversation, but that normally happens with women you already know, and they already like you. Very rarely can guys do a cold approach, get the girls number, and get her wanting to have sex through text only. Until you get to that "sage" level, stick to the rules and use texting as a means to maintain attraction, and set a meetup.

    I have been working on my text game, and until I get to the point of being able to successfully build attraction through text, I avoid it like the plague and stick to escalating sexually on the phone and or in person. Why is it so hard to really build attraction through text? It comes down to shit test. Being able to identify and pass the shit tests women throw at you through text consistently is a skill. Walking the fine line of building sexual attraction with out being overly aggressive, and without being to passive while passing her shit tests, and knowing the timing of when to advance is tough. Like all skills, it should be sharpened, practiced, and fully realized before stepping on the battlefield. So with the women who are "expendable," practice such tactics, but with the women you take interest in stick to the rules and or what works for you.

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    Default Re: buyers remorse or what?

    Never underestimate the power of texting. But at the same time, don't rely on JUST texting.
    You have to be congruent all around if you're gonna be as successful as you want to be.

    Using my texting methods can help you get a girl interested in meeting up... but if you blow it in real life, then what's the point?

    Definitely work on ALL areas of your game... including your own personal self.
    Confidence is absolutely necessary. Period.

    By the way... you weren't interested in her friend right?
    So you shouldn't let her friend dictate your game.

    I text who I wanna text, WHEN I wanna text them. If someone's "friends" get upset because I'm getting all her attention, then they're gonna have to just suck it up.




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    Default Re: buyers remorse or what?

    No the thing is, idk her friend, and me and Amy we only have one mutual friend, which wants me to hit on her. So ya should I wait a week or two and then try to set up a date?
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