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    Default How to do an F-close date via text?

    What is a good non-committal way of setting up an F-close date indicating a hookup. Granted I have tried the traditional dating route and it's kinda of a drag where I take the girl out and spend a lot of money get a k-close but never can manage to take it back to her place since I am playing the Nice Guy frame.

    These girls are giving me the fark me eyes and indicating they want the D so I was just wondering some good texting examples to set up an F-close preferrably at her place without looking like a douchebag. I have tried inviting myself over to watch a movie and got some girl hugely offended and I have tried playing it safe and get the "You are a nice guy but...". I got 2 fresh numbers and I don't want to be spending a ton of money to get laid. Plus I think they want it so suggestions please for me to try this out tomorrow.
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    Default Re: How to do an F-close date via text?

    The easiest way is to have something interesting to lure her into going to your place like a tea cup pig or a little sister. You know, girl crack. If you want to go to her place just get her to reveal something that might lure you.

    You can even do the movie thing but what's important about the movie thing is that it has to be completely relevant. You can't just one day be like "Hey, you wanna watch a movie at your place tonight?" or you might as well say "You wanna f*** tonight?"

    You get to know what she's into first like if she's a school teacher you say "Oh, like Lily on How I Met Your Mother?" and she'll say "Yeh, I love that show!" Then it gives you the perfect transition to be all "Doesn't that come on tonight? We should totally watch it together."

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    Default Re: How to do an F-close date via text?

    Dude, you can't really set up an F-close via text without really smooth text game. If you try you will fail miserably. When I've done it in the past it's been through innuendo's. Nothing very blatant.

    I've hooked up with many girls the first time we hung out, but I either A. Brought them home from a bar/party or B. Already knew them and had built enough comfort/rapport that they enthusiastically accepted my invitation to come to my house. You can't expect a girl you briefly met that doesn't know you to come over to your place the first date. They want to meet you in a public place and get more comfortable.

    That being said, if you get them on a date and they are giving you the green light you can bring them home. K-close then get them turned on. One thing I've done to isolate to a more private location towards the end of the date is tell them to get in my car so they can check out some music I think they will really enjoy. I listen to allot of obscure music most people haven't heard of before and I'm a master at picking out music I think a girl will like. This usually comes up in conversation then I "show" them the music in my car. Escalate, escalate, escalate. Go as far as you can then say "come over to my place". If you got them turned on enough they will. I like to use a push/pull technique to do this. Essentially you are a HUGE tease and women can't get enough. If you read my thread "The Guide: Blasting through LMR" in the "How to seduce a woman" forum you will find everything you need to know about that.

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    Default Re: How to do an F-close date via text?

    Yeah well I sent my F-close texts already asking for a hookup buddy. Funny thing is usually send 1,000 messages with no reply and today to talk good cuz I set the frame. I usually get a reply right away when I go the nice route but it is so dang expensive and time consuming to take a girl on 3-4 dates before getting it. I am tired of the BS. So all this year going strait for the hookup and forgetting about the dating.

    I feel like this may work but I have all Summer to find out. Either way how is the phone any different I mean you try to hookup in person so why not over text? Shoot out of 100 girls at least 1 will say yes. Not to mention I went the nice route on my last 100 girls and got rejected a lot for being a Nice Guy. Now I sent them those texts and no replies??? I get rejected faster for being nice!!? They are on the rejection train right away when they sniff my scent. Why have I not been rejected for being a total jerk and saying I wanted a hookup? I have no idea but I am willing to find out. Rejection kills might as well get rejected for being a man and being direct about it. Temp project by the way, we'll see how it goes and I'll report back if anything develops.
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