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    Default Re: Kyle's Comprehensive Guide to Slaying the "Friend Zone"

    partly hardrock advice and a couple others.but good read.you put effort into it and i like that.certainly entertained.you kinda like latinas a lot which is sorta cool.
    Peace

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    Default Re: Kyle's Comprehensive Guide to Slaying the "Friend Zone"

    Hey Kyle, sorry if I get on your nerves, but with asking I am learning.

    The last text exchange I had with the girl who my friend zone thread is about, was on Friday. The text from her, which I showed in the thread.
    There was a game of quizduell and because I forgot I played back and she did too. Hours later at four in the morning. The same day she was very friendly while greeting and even kind of shy like a little girl who gets caught by doing something wrong, when she was clipping with her pen and I told her to stop several times. Except the quizduell game nothing is happening, no poking back by me, no texting.

    Is it possible that she is already aware of what I am doing? It's just a week, so I am not waiting for a text of her, but I just want to make sure if I am reading the signs (if there are any ) right.

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    Default Re: Kyle's Comprehensive Guide to Slaying the "Friend Zone"

    No.

    Girls are never fully aware of what you're doing, unless you post gay shit on facebook or twitter hinting at what you're doing. Girls are creeps, and she'll check in on you, and if you post something like...

    "I wish you'd text me, but until then I guess i'll sit here and quizduel you because i'm stubborn and want out of the friendzone."

    Then yeah, she'd find out and know.

    That's why girls are easily manipulated, and easy to control. Most of them have no "game" other than put make-up on and look hot, and hope that he likes me or thinks I'm cute. If he isn't giving me attention, then I'll go out of my way to get his attention until I'm basically throwing myself at him, or I give up. Even the girls with "game" aren't very complicated to get.

    Now if she's fucked in the head, that's when the games begin, but that's a different story.

    One week of silence? Make it a month. Try it. You won't have one-itus anymore, and your game will improve ten fold.

    I've went no contact with girls I thought I was in love with for 2 months+ to get myself out of the friend zone with. It's all about emotional strength, and keeping yourself busy.

    Have faith she'll text you. If she doesn't, who cares. Re-initiate in a month with something fun and follow my guide to get her to hangout.

    And I have no clue what Quizduel is, but it sounds farking gay. Stop doing it, or playing it, or feeding it, whatever.

    Why don't you play chutes and ladders with her? Or maybe trade Neo-pets in your pajama's to get out of the friend zone/build rapport?

    That's me being a sarcastic ass hole btw. Don't do that.

    I'm not trying to sound harsh, but it's better you get solid advice that will help you, than somebody who's going to be nice and beat around the bush.

    And you don't get on my nerves. I'm here to help you if you genuinely need help.

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    Default Re: Kyle's Comprehensive Guide to Slaying the "Friend Zone"

    Ok thank you!

    Quizduell is a game like "who becomes the millionaire" or however it's known in your country. Since there is a timelimit to play back within 36 hours, i thought she'll get the hint what I am doing if I let run out the time. But if you say she's not aware of it. Cool.

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    Default Re: Kyle's Comprehensive Guide to Slaying the "Friend Zone"

    Naw man, don't worry about things like that. If she doesn't message back, just re-initiate in a couple days. Or the next day. Whenever you feel like it pretty much, just start a new topic.

    It'd be like me playing candy crush, or some Facebook game, & sending her a notification to remind her to text me back or talk to me. Lol.

    See where I'm getting at?

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    Default Re: Kyle's Comprehensive Guide to Slaying the "Friend Zone"

    Not really. May be the hangover, sorry But no contact means no contact, I've got it. Which reminds me of that that the colleague from the thread from January reminded me on the invitation to meeting one of her guy friends because he and I have to meet. She meqnt something like his and my humour would complete each other. So what does it mean if I am the only colleague she introduces to her friends (guys and girls)? And what does it in generwlmean if a girl wants you to meet her close friends?
    I am trying to learn how to see if I am sending friendsignals to girls aka getting friendzoned. But I have to get advices from you to get better.
    PS: I had to contact her because of university and she was very talkative through text but I ended the texting after the business was done (6 texts from her, 3 from me)

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    Default Re: Kyle's Comprehensive Guide to Slaying the "Friend Zone"

    Wait. I'm confused. Do you think you're in the friend zone with this girl? Are you actually in it or do you just think you are? Does she know you're interested at all/have you made a move on her, or tried to get her to hangout in any way? These are all important questions.

    One-itus is not a bad thing like everybody on these forums makes it out to be. Everybody will eventually get it. Shit, even I have it. It's just how you react to it. One-itus tends to make you over-think, and become clingy/obsessive. All bad. I can sense you're getting one-itus, so when you start over-thinking, just remember that.

    As to answer your questions in order.

    1.) She wants you to meet one of her guy friends? Is he her boy toy of some sort, or just friends? If its just one of her best friends, that's pretty cool. Any time a girl wants you to meet one of her close friends, you're important to her in some way.
    2.)Like I said above, if a girl introduces you to her close best friends, that's a huge Indicator she likes you and you're important enough in her life to have you meet who she values. It's hard to articulate into words, but it's completely situational as well. A girl introducing you to her close friends in a library is different from her introducing you in a small group hangout. In one circumstance, it's just a friendly introducing, and the other, she's introducing you in a more serious, relationship, I like this guy, way. You get what i'm saying?

    It's always good to end texts early. It keeps her in a "chase" frame, makes her feel like you're rejecting her kind of, makes you look busy, keeps your value, and it's just more attractive then if you over-text her, or never keep her guessing.

    Always be a mystery, and give girls attention, then instantly take it away. Shit, take it away just because you feel like ignoring her & you have better things to do. Make her feel like she's your best friend, then ignore her and act pissy for a few days. Push/pull dynamic. It'll drive her emotions crazy & she'll think about you a lot more.

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    Default Re: Kyle's Comprehensive Guide to Slaying the "Friend Zone"

    With her I am not sure. There've been some statements of interest but ws pueh/pull, but except the italian kiss on the cheeks and hands around her shoulders there weren't any moves because I didn't know how to isolate how to act properly if she states the LJBF. Thanks to you I know now.

    1. Definately a friend. He acts like a dancing monkey, an entertainer for her. There've been several times when I've got the impression that she's just exploiting these friendships. Not with me so far. Atleast I didn't notice something like that because she never expects something from me just because it's her.
    2. No, not like the library. It's more like out of the blu invitations to come with her and her friends to bars and cafes. I couldn't make it so far because I had other plans. And I always was the only one "new" invited. No other colleague she seemed to be friends with.

    So no, I am not sure about the friendzone thing with her. But as the other girl she's openly speaking with me about her sexual life. On the other hand she seems proud of the numbers of guys she's slept with on spring break but always makes sure I don't see her as slut. Girls
    So what's your impression? She too is ignored for nearls three weeks. And yeah I am overthinking but I don't know how to get rid of it.
    Thank you again for your time. I seem to be only one who uses this thread

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    Default Re: Kyle's Comprehensive Guide to Slaying the "Friend Zone"

    An answer till tomorrow would be very nice. Tomorrow's the day, she said on St. Patrick's Day, she would go out with the friend and that I should come along. I think she will message me because of that tomorrow, because nothing should have changed to the negative. If she'snot saying something I would be confused but I just will continue the no contact and then reinitiate.
    And if she says something is there a difference in acting if I am friendzoned and if I am not (see previous post please)?
    So it would be nice to solve this before tomorrow, thanks^^

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    Default Re: Kyle's Comprehensive Guide to Slaying the "Friend Zone"

    If she is talking to you about her sexual life, that's not cool. That means she doesn't see you as a potential mate. She doesn't view you like that, so she talks about other guys and how sex, because she wants advice.

    Unless she's trying to make you jealous, but I highly doubt that.

    If she wants you to come along, make sure you come along. If she doesn't contact you, wait until like 2 hours before, and text her like, Hey dorkbutt! We still down for tonight with your friend or not?
    Then in person, during the hangout, make a move.

    If she doesn't like it, make it no big deal.


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