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Thread: Pandora's Box, TDR or NVR?

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    Default Pandora's Box, TDR or NVR?

    Hello guys. Heres my dilemma. I met this HB and all indications were she was a NVR (going thru divorce, found a rebound she deeply tried to "fix" and "make it work" etc until she gave up on him. Fast forward to the present. I had all indications of her being an investor due to past experiences and past relationships, however I am finding myself with her acting super tester lately (found out she's leading one more guy into thinking they might have a chance and so on) I froze her out immediately (without calling her out on my findings) and did some push and pull after a few days since she tried to initiate some contact. but from here and on Im lost, I am not sure if I should pursue her as a tester or investor anymore. and more importantly; if i go for the tester and "win her over" how am i going to know for sure she's "only mine" I swear to god i feel like she has multiple personalities!

    any input is greatly appreciated!

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    Default Re: Pandora's Box, TDR or NVR?

    if i go for the tester and "win her over" how am i going to know for sure she's "only mine" I swear to god i feel like she has multiple personalities!
    you won't be able to "make sure" she's only yours. but you can approach it with a less needy attitude.

    anytime I have a girlfriend, I really don't care if she cheats. as in, I don't give a sh!t. my perspective is that if a girl cheats on me, its just a good excuse to have an open relationship so I can have any other girl I want as well as her.

    I let girls know right from the first date, I believe in fairness. if a woman cheats on me for one guy, I'm going to find another woman the night I find out. not to mention that I will be brutally honest and tell her all about what I did and how good that other woman was.

    most woman only cheat on needy guys. if you keep a completely non-needy attitude, she probably won't get near as much enjoyment out of cheating on you.

    btw, the thing you gotta love about realists is how non-needy they are. if you want to game them, you have to be even less needy.

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    Default Re: Pandora's Box, TDR or NVR?

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post
    btw, the thing you gotta love about realists is how non-needy they are. if you want to game them, you have to be even less needy.
    No sh!t !!this is my first real "realist" its very weird to say the least! the level of independence and self awareness is next to none!

    But back to my dilemma here; I just dont know how to approach her anymore. The iNvestor approach is slightly neeedy as it is. and the tester approach might scare her off if this is her first time being a tester.

    Or am I over complicating things here??

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    Or am I over complicating things here??
    yes, you are.

    I just dont know how to approach her anymore. The iNvestor approach is slightly neeedy as it is. and the tester approach might scare her off if this is her first time being a tester.
    the truth is that Pandora's box complicates things for a lot of guys.

    I would approach every girl with a non-needy attitude, whatever the personality type. (universally almost no girls like clingy guys.)

    I highly suggest you read the e-book "be relentless" by david x (it can be found on the internet for free)

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    Default Re: Pandora's Box, TDR or NVR?

    Stop using Pandora's box, it's garbage.


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