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    Default Is it possible to improve inner game within a few weeks?

    My ex broke up with me a day ago because she kept complaining pretty much about how I'm an AFC. Since then I bought "The Power of Now" and started talking to other girls. I've got a date set in a few days to give my ego a kick start. I hit the gym and I know how to dress myself but it's obviously not helping my insecurity. I'm still an introvert and shy to approach higher value women. Are there any other steps I can take improve my inner game or is this just my personality?

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    Default Re: Is it possible to improve inner game within a few weeks?

    Yes and no. Inner game comes down to a state of mind. I'm sure someone could just choose to have that statement of mind if they wanted, but to the large majority it takes practice. Lots and lots of practice. Your goal should be to better yourself everyday. Each day waking up knowing you're shit and maintaining that attitude threw out the day. Go out, have fun, get rejected and learn. The inner game will come, but for it to stick you need life experiences.

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    Default Re: Is it possible to improve inner game within a few weeks?

    That depends upon degree of improvement you are looking for. In all honesty inner game is something you will improve upon daily. Tomorrow you will always have the potential of having more control over your inner game than today. But realistically the improvement you expect in one week divide that in half and that is a fair goal for your improvements. The hardest thing to change is the self developed conclusions that scociety has poisoned your brain with and you have perfected over many years of conditioning.

    It is a continuous thing that one must be mindful of and hone, even the best of us have a bad day and rethink ourselves, but if that happens too much a wake up call could snowball and destroy your inner game. Best bet keep working on inner game but don't look at it as improvement as much as an adjustment. Keep adjusting your inner thoughts to the way you wish to perceive yourself. It isn't a right wrong thing so putting it into a improve or not category is very difficult.
    Learn to be a better person not a better player.

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    Default Re: Is it possible to improve inner game within a few weeks?

    Not really but yes it is possible (Rising Phoenix RSD). However despite my critics I am taking the long route to improvement. Gym, Tatts, Work, Girls, Car, and Pad. Work ties into car and pad and part of why this is a 5 year project since I am building towards a 30k car. My dream car. Then once I pull that off move and get my own pad. So I am focusing on what can be done since I have to finish this car loan before getting into another one, my main sticking point right now is having to wait to be freed up.

    So I am focusing on what I can while I wait. Gym, Tatts, Work and stuff for my next pad. Got 35 video games and 17 movies so that is in progress as well. Building a mountain and starting small but when it is finished will have quite the pad! Going to be insane. So I took a promotion at work and moving up. Next of course on the boards is the Gym. Got to 180LBS and 16% BF. Started my cut in FEB and was at 26% BF. Just got my second tatt and some girl at the GYM was screaming "DAMN" at me cuz she sees me everyday but the minute I am sporting a new tatt? She goes bananas.

    Then next year getting my Lion and Dragon tatt on my back and my artist is so excited about it he posted how excited he is to have some "Big projects". He commented before he loved doing my animal tatts because most people choose generic stuff. So getting that tatt which is like a grand so can't walk in tomorrow and get it that's why this is a project. But I am 30 and you are 20 so I am making up for a lot of lost time by accelerating my progress on overdrive.

    And if you are wondering how this affects my inner game you will see my FR's this Summer, cuz I love Summer. But I just made the hot bartender bust on her arse laughing so hard when I called her hot she literally died laughing. Because I have blossomed and gotten more confidence me giving hot chicks compliments makes them go bananas because they won't stop staring after I pull off a nice stunt like that. But I didn't just call her hot I built the suspense and intrigue first. Look through my recent posts for the actual wording.

    Lastly even everybody at the Club knows I love Summer cuz I never shut up about it. So they been seeing me this Spring all confused lol. I said yeah I am here warming up but this Summer I say I am running the full Gauntlet and pulling all the stops so here goes nothing. This is why I say Inner Game doesn't happen overnight. But miracles do happen. I have more Social Proof in my left finger at the Club I feel like I am owning it. Not the same at the Bar but I love the Bar cuz they are swarming with 10's.

    Either way last year was Year 1 "My Growing Pains" as it were. I got needy, I got Oneitis, I got jealous but now I got game! So my Inner Game is peaking and I am about to go full blast this Summer but my warm up is going great. N-Closed a 9 at the Club in 5 min flat and I never could do that starting out. We'll see but my Inner Game is more about where I am going and less about where I am. You'll see but this Summer I'll be bringing the heat big time. Basically just having fun. I have realized Inner Game is more about having fun than getting the girl this is why I walk from 6's and 7's but I'll close an 8!

    Not to mention ever since I dated a 45 yr old Cougar (HB8) I have been getting hit on by 40yr olds constantly. My Inner Game has changed "they know". Had a 47 yr old grabbing my leg today actually. This never happened in my 20's. I tried to date a 32 yr old and totally got the shaft. Now anyway things have changed. Should have seen the looks from other hot cougars while on my date "they were in awe" totally giving me the look of lust.
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    Default Re: Is it possible to improve inner game within a few weeks?

    Higher value women? You put value on women? Never do that. Higher the value you place on her, the harder it is to game her because your mind has already created a goal that may not be met depending on how poor your inner
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    If you have rich inner game then placing value on women could work as an ego boost since you can engage yourself to game beautiful women who you'd consider challenging. No shame in taking baby steps. You can't change years of conditioning in under 3 weeks. Take it slow and absorb it better.

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    Default Re: Is it possible to improve inner game within a few weeks?

    Inner game comes as you improve yourself, and it is a slow process. You can't rush through it, but the secret is very simple. Accept who you are and accept the fact that others are free to take it or leave it.

    I'm fairly introverted myself, and I'm fine with that. I can be charming and outgoing when I want or need to be, but overall I'm perfectly fine being by myself and it is exhausting when I have to be around a lot of people for a long period of time.

    Own the fact you are introverted and learn to not be shy and be proud of who you are.
    KISS - Keep it Stupid Simple


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