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Thread: Dating younger girl

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    Default Dating younger girl

    I m 32, she is 17. It just happened, we felt in love. Any opinions about this? Any help is welcome

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    Default Re: Dating younger girl

    IMO, the difference is too big. She's still a girl, you're a man.

    I would avoid a situation like this at all cost..
    No real experience from my side, but I expect a lot of criticism from you and your girls social circles (family, friends, colleagues,..).

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    Default Re: Dating younger girl

    A lot depends on the girl, I won't date a girl younger than 18, but do what you will. As said above, you may get some flack for it.

    Personally I prefer younger girls (though I'm only 27), so here is a bit of advice.

    Expect her to get a bit flaky and aloof, it happens

    Remember that girls this young throw the term "love" around loosely

    Don't expect a lifetime commitment out of this, she doesn't know who she is yet, and will have to find herself some time.

    You must lead this interaction and its difficult to keep a girl this young's attention

    You will have to teach her a lot, with patience without going into "Daddy Mode" She isn't your child, and you should allow her to make her own decisions and give your input, generally, when asked for it.

    If she isn't mature it can be very frustrating, and you cannot sleep with her until she is of legal age.

    Also it sucks that she will have to have permission to do stuff and see you, but you need to accept this and be very charming to the adults in her life to keep seeing here. Notice how I referred to them as "the adults"...put some thought into this one man.
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    She is " mature ", more than girls older then she is. Age gap is big, but believe me that older males than i m also trying to get her. She is 9/10, smart ... I get it, people around us gonna talk, but i dont care. I met her last year, and at the end, she ended with me. I couldnt control feelings and i will continue with this no matter what. Just need others advices about this

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    Default Re: Dating younger girl

    Blistex hit it on the head. I'm 27 myself and have dated a few 19-20 year olds over the last couple years. Even at this age they don't know who they are. They can be flakey and lose interest really fast, even if they are really into you. Also, don't fall into the trap that she's "more mature for her age". Trust me, she probably isn't. I thought that with every girl I dated around the 19-20 year old range and after it ended I realized "actually she wasn't more mature, she was just like every girl her age".

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    Default Re: Dating younger girl

    What others have said. I know a hot girl who all my friends want. But we are 25-33 and she is 19. Cool girl, real serious... Intelligent even. But no way is she anything more than a friend with benefits type girl. The age difference is way too much. She is smart but not mature and that is a huge obstacle for LTR.

    Plus IMHO is that girls that young are easier to game because you are older. So there may be some oneitis here. Just keep your head clear man. You don't have to take a hot 17 year old. I'm sure u got hot mature girls you could be gaming.
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