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    Exclamation Slow texting, third date set up (tinder chick)

    What's up fellas!

    Met a hb9 on tinder, went for coffee first time we met and it went well enough to go on a psecond date even tho I was an AFC at some points (acting nervous, not enough flirting and bad close... She leaned in a for a hug). Fast forward to second date... Texting responses got ridiculous but I didn't really care I mixed up my response times as well to not be a AFC. The date was good took her out to a restaurant she's never been and she enjoyed it. Afterwards went for drinks and I kiss closed. I set up a date for Saturday but her texting antics are annoying me LOL

    What's the best thing to do??? Any advice will help

    Ps. Sorry if this is the wrong place to post this

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    Default Re: Slow texting, third date set up (tinder chick)

    Do not take her to eat more food on your 3rd date,maybe something more fun for a change ?

    Anyways...
    What antics are you talking about ?I don't really understand what the problem is,since it seems like things are going well for you.

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    Default Re: Slow texting, third date set up (tinder chick)

    I was planning on taking her to a comedy show...

    What I mean is she takes forever to respond but at the very beginning she would rapid fire me with texts...

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    Default Re: Slow texting, third date set up (tinder chick)

    UPDATE

    Went on Saturday during they day. Kept it simple went for a walk and grabbed ice cream. I thought conversation went well and I kiss closed again. Later that night I texted her something to do with how nice the day was (Saturday night) and no response.
    She's obviously seen the text (iPhone messaging) so I guess I'm going to move on.
    Do you guys have any advice? Anything will help, I'm definitely pissed she's playing games. I mean c'mon who doesn't check their messages??

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    Default Re: Slow texting, third date set up (tinder chick)

    It sounds like you're not effectively using texting to make the interaction FUN.

    A simple text about how nice the day was isn't going to affect her emotionally. It's not going to spark any kind of excitement or make her feel compelled to respond. (That's the same type of text a "friend" would send her.)


    If you want to get her attention & get her responding again, look at my "Magic Texts" thread.

    There are LOTS of examples of actual texts I've used over the past couple years, that have had great success in getting a girl to re-engage & spark more fun interactions.




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    Default Re: Slow texting, third date set up (tinder chick)

    Thanks so much!!!
    One more random question, if she texts me how should I play it?
    Should I attemp to text her back in a few days?
    Last edited by iltf604; 04-14-2014 at 12:22 PM. Reason: Added a question

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    Default Re: Slow texting, third date set up (tinder chick)

    I would personally text her back fairly soon after, if she responds.
    Why continue the waiting game?

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    Default Re: Slow texting, third date set up (tinder chick)

    Thanks so much...
    I will keep you posted


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