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Thread: HB offers her best friends - what to do now? HELP pls.

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    Default HB offers her best friend - what to do now? HELP pls.

    So, I approached this HB a few days before - she got of the subway, I followed and opened her. She was on a rush because she had a blind date with a vegan guy and she was on late. So we had a brief conversation, I #-closed her. Some texting and a phone call after that, but we wasn't able to set up a date - she said she was busy on weekdays, offered weekend but I didn't have time then.

    Some more texting, and I got this message just now: "Listen, don't you wanna meet my best girlfriend? You are so cool but unfortunatelly I need the vegan guy "

    Is it a shittest, a DLV, I screwed up something? How should I react? It has never happened to me before, please help what to do.
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    Default Re: HB offers her best friends - what to do now? HELP pls.

    Play along don't commit to wanting to be set up with her friend. See if you can get her and her best friend to hang out casually. At that point then you can see I what you want to do. But make it clear you do not want to be set up with someone.

    Knowing more people never hurts, you can get more info on your original target, and it opens doors to other potential targets.

    The other advantage is if she is really into vegan guy you have nothing to loose. If you don't like her friend it is ok you don't have to go for it but who knows. So keep your options open and foremost just have fun. You have nothing to loose and possibly other opportunities to gain. Also if you gain favor with her close friend you gain favor with her.
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    Default Re: HB offers her best friends - what to do now? HELP pls.

    It depends what the number close was about. Can't really say based on the info I have. What was the close?
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    Default Re: HB offers her best friends - what to do now? HELP pls.

    To me it sounds like a shit test. Why would she "need" the vegan guy?! Even if she likes him now, there is no guarrantee that Mr Vegan won't screw it up sometime soon. Girls normally throw this shit test to estimate your attraction level, so I would say "No, I am attracted to you and so I prefer to be with you. I am sure I am more fun than a protein-free guy".
    If you admit to meet her friend, which probably does not even exist, you will put yourself in a lose-lose situation. Because:

    1- If it's a shit test then she will presume that you don't like her so she will ditch you.

    2- If that friend exists, you never know whether she is a descent beautiful woman or not. Based on my personal experience, majority of times women set their friends with a guy, for their friends and not to the favor of the guy!! They care about their girlfriends and not you so she might be sacrificing you to help a desperate friend of hers!

    I would insist to date herself and not her friend.

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    Default Re: HB offers her best friends - what to do now? HELP pls.

    Ok, so that's how it went:
    She sent a picture about her friend - she was even hotter then she lol. Anyways, I told her that I had to make sure that she (the original target) is cool enough, we can talk about her girlfriend afterwards. I wanted to move to facebook because to be honest it was really uncomfortable to talk through Viber - but she denied it saying she that it's not an option, she only has her friends on facebook. I negged her a bit saying poor you, that most be boring, having a facebook profil without friends who post cat pictures and shit. She didn't really react well, and a bit later said: Ok, I must stop this conversation - or some like that, and said goodbye.

    I wasn't really in state for chit-chat to be honest but I tried to do my best - Idk if there's anything I might do from this point. She is hot and if the picture she sent is from her girlfrind, then she is hot, too.
    Anyway, thanks for the ideas and thoughts fellas!

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    Default Re: HB offers her best friends - what to do now? HELP pls.

    Mate, this is the first thing you must learn about negging: You never neg a HB through texting. Negging is for when you talk to her in person so that you can quickly change the subject or you can show with your body language that you are not serious. You cannot do any of these through texting and that's why you let her blow you out.

    She would do you a favor (setting you up with a friend) if she liked you. With negging over text you made her be cranky at you so you have reduced your chance of shagging her friend. I would say put the "good guy" hat on for a bit until things get back to normal.

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    Default Re: HB offers her best friends - what to do now? HELP pls.

    Personally I don't use neg, there are many more ways to make things move without cutting anyone down.

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    Default Re: HB offers her best friends - what to do now? HELP pls.

    Negging is almost never necessary, but sometimes when a girl is being a bitch she means it. Negging is used to throw a girl off her game, and you should always try to raise the value of those around you rather than reduce it to make yours seem greater. You want people to associate you with positive feelings.
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    Default Re: HB offers her best friends - what to do now? HELP pls.

    Why are you negging? Especially if you don't seem to know how to neg and when to neg. Alot of newbies fvck this up and end up looking like a d1ck.

    You only really need to neg if the girl has a b1tch shield. The really good PUAs don't even need to neg because there are other effective methods out there such as disqualifying (which is self-amusing). Negging is not.

    She said "you were cool" and you just undercut all of that. So of course she didn't react well.

    Hopefully, you didn't screw the pooch on this one. Live and learn.

    Lastly, why are you regressing to a fb convo when you have her phone #? You shouldn't be getting into ccnvos and chit chat over a wall of text. You need to close and move this up to a person to person conversation.


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