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    Default Being decisive

    Hey guys,
    I'm just wondering what you would all do in this situation.
    There's a girl at my college who recently became single. I've had a couple of classes with her but that was last year. We are fb friends but have never really talked that much.
    I'd like to make a move because there's only a couple of months left until summer and she's really attractive. I was thinking about maybe putting flowers in in mail box and leaving my number? If so what would you recommend I say?
    Or is that a bad idea?
    Thanks.

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    Default Re: Being decisive

    No flowers man,absolutely not.

    All you gotta do is see her and tell her what's on your mind :

    "We've been in a couple of classes together and I thought you were really cute,so I feel like we should meet up some day for an ice cream,I wanna get to know you"

    This has to be said with a calm and confident voice,while keeping a confident eye contact.
    You're not asking her by the way,you're telling her.

    No gifts,she has done nothing to deserve them yet.

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    Default Re: Being decisive

    Since the two of you "never really talked" despite having a couple of classes together. Before you invite her out I would suggest that you flirt with her for a little while on FB or in person if you see her around. Once you've built a bit of comfort then on the high point of your interaction ( text or chat) with her you should invite her out for a coffee, drink or some activity.

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    Default Re: Being decisive

    Either way works, I would totally use the first one though, it suits my personality better and it's high-risk high-reward if you have the frame for it. That basically means can you look her in the eye and say it naturally without flinching for even a second. Chances are it is going to catch her off guard as well.

    The downside though...it forces her to make a decision based on what she knows about you, so it would be much easier for her to reject you.
    KISS - Keep it Stupid Simple

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    Default Re: Being decisive

    Not into using electronics they are the AFC tool of choice.

    Like mentioned above no gifts she didn't do anything to deserve them.

    You have to approach and talk to her. IN MY OPINION direct conversation or approach in a situation like that will be the only way to make a lasting impression. Also it is the least likely avenue of approach making it more favorable. You can try Facebook or whatever but again IN MY OPINION that is lame it is the same way every other college guy is going to approach. Most notably the AFC way avoids face to face contact therefore I prefer face to face interaction it yields best results
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