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Thread: Taking no action (no kino etc.) "vs." not hitting on them

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    Default Taking no action (no kino etc.) "vs." not hitting on them

    May be a basic question but I haven't understood the difference yet.

    Where's the difference between the "pussy-behaviour" of not taking action like kino etc. and the not hitting on them attitude? Is it the same, but at different times of the interaction or what?
    May be obvious but I can't answer this question by myself.

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    Default Re: Taking no action (no kino etc.) "vs." not hitting on them

    Not hitting on them attitude can be seen in 2 ways.

    Way 1: To big a pussy to hit on someone

    Way 2: You're literally just not hitting on someone

    Now the other thing you're talking about is someone who'll make the appraoch, but they're to big a pussy to kino, make direct statments, etc, because they feel as if the girl will be creeped out.

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    Default Re: Taking no action (no kino etc.) "vs." not hitting on them

    So, the diffence is my attitude? OK thanks^^

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    Default Re: Taking no action (no kino etc.) "vs." not hitting on them

    Attitude plays into it yes, but also remember your non verbal communication can be compensating or even stabbing you in the back at the same time.

    The fact of attitude can play into it but the subconscious will always show through.

    Learn your non verbal cues learn to manipulate them and mind them all the time.

    Secondly I'd you feel you may creep someone else out by doing something you will self fulfilling prophecies happy because your subconscious makes them. So believe in yourself make yourself think you are natural and gracefully with your actions and you will be come more fluid and natural.

    Work on yourself, then believe in the improved you. Belief is more powerful than any attitude.
    Learn to be a better person not a better player.

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    Default Re: Taking no action (no kino etc.) "vs." not hitting on them

    Glad you're back hometown .. It's been awhile broski

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    Default Re: Taking no action (no kino etc.) "vs." not hitting on them

    You want to show some interest in some way sooner or later. If you don't show any kind of interest or give her any kind of attention she will think you aren't interested. It's as simple as that. However, you want to confuse her a bit by making it so she's not sure if you are really interested in her or not(at least initially). You want to make it clear you think she's cool and that you will talk to her based on her personality and not just her looks.

    You can be non needy but as a man you have to do something and you have to take action. Things aren't going to happen by themselves.A guy standing there acting afraid to make a move has the same effect as the guy who thinks he's too cool to make a move. They both have the same outcome.


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