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Thread: How to not give a straight answer??

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    Default How to not give a straight answer??

    I have been reading up on David DeAngelo's "Double your Dating" and he talks about never giving a straight answer.

    I understand that the reasons are to not seem submissive to a women, not letting her control the frame by doing what she asks and instead demonstrating that you are in control and a challenge to her.

    I would like to know if anyone can elaborate on this a bit:

    a) Examples of NOT giving a straight answer to questions such as:

    - What do you do for a living?
    - How old are you?
    - Where are you from?
    - What music are you into?

    etc

    Basically all of the boring mundane every day questions that people ask each other.

    b) Do you only NOT give a straight answer the first time round and then afterwards answer her question??.....

    HB: What do you do for a living?
    PUA: I Punch out the middle of POLO mints!
    HB: haha! Really??....
    PUA: Of course not you clutz! I'm really a ........

    OR

    C) do you just keep avoiding the straight answers all of the time and keep firing back made up cocky/funny responses?...

    HB: How old are you?

    PUA: How old do I look?

    HB: bout 26

    PUA: half it......yep I shouldn't even be in here! your so gonna get into trouble if I get caught, I am gonna tell them you got me in here and bought me this drink!.....your gonna be in so much trouble!

    HB: haha! What!! shut up!!......really how old are you?

    PUA: I'm 13! can't you do Math!.....

    HB: your not 13! seriously....stop it.... how old are you?

    PUA: everyone is looking at you.....your gonna be on the news I can see the headline now "CUTE CLUTZ FLIRTS WITH ADOLESCENT WHILST TRYING TO SEDUCE HIM WITH ALCOHOL" I hope you like prison food! I promise to write to you everyday!

    etc etc etc etc etc etc

    any feedback would be much appreciated!

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    Default Re: How to not give a straight answer??

    C) do you just keep avoiding the straight answers all of the time and keep firing back made up cocky/funny responses?...

    HB: How old are you?

    PUA: How old do I look?

    HB: bout 26

    PUA: half it......yep I shouldn't even be in here! your so gonna get into trouble if I get caught, I am gonna tell them you got me in here and bought me this drink!.....your gonna be in so much trouble!

    HB: haha! What!! shut up!!......really how old are you?

    PUA: I'm 13! can't you do Math!.....

    HB: your not 13! seriously....stop it.... how old are you?

    PUA: everyone is looking at you.....your gonna be on the news I can see the headline now "CUTE CLUTZ FLIRTS WITH ADOLESCENT WHILST TRYING TO SEDUCE HIM WITH ALCOHOL" I hope you like prison food! I promise to write to you everyday!

    etc etc etc etc etc etc

    any feedback would be much appreciated!
    first off, this is good sh!t, if you can keep it up like david de angelo does.

    however, you're not david de angelo, you're probably going to want to switch into some normal conversation after playing around like that.

    obviously if you keep at that for too long, she's going to think you're a complete nut job.
    david de angelo can get away with it because he's one of the best looking pua's out there, not to mention the fact that he's more than funny enough to be a comedian.

    face it, you're not him.

    however you can tease girls as much as you want to. odds are you will want to make some "normal" conversation eventually.

    now as for the original question:

    a) Examples of NOT giving a straight answer to questions such as:

    - What do you do for a living?
    - How old are you?
    - Where are you from?
    - What music are you into?
    odds are you don't want to tease her about the same question all night, but that doesn't mean you can't give interesting answers to boring questions.

    examples:

    her: what do you do for a living?
    me: I suck peoples blood to sustain myself
    her: lol, seriously, what do you do?
    me: well aside from that, I'm a genie, I make peoples wishes come true when they order food.
    her: so you're a waiter?
    me: oh hell no, them people are my b!tches, I'm da chef.

    see what I did there? i was indirect, but i didn't keep her guessing all night. odds are she'll stay engaged because i demonstrated that I'm entertaining, but i didn't stay on the same topic all night.

    other examples

    her: how old are you?
    me: how old do you think i am? (i used a cheasy smile to show off my braces)
    her: 17?
    me: if i were that young you'd probably be in jail by now
    her:then how old are you?
    me: old enough
    her: so you are 17.
    me: try adding 3 years to that.
    her: ah so you're 20?
    me: yeppers, and how old would you be?
    her: blah blah


    her: where are you from?
    me: my mothers womb. (with a strait face)
    her: really?
    me: well if i said i was from (city) you might think i was an anal baby.
    her: lol

    this last one is the one where you want to give a more direct answer. everyone is used to hearing people say "i listen to any music" (witch is a load of crap)

    her: what music are you into?
    me: when playing rock paper scissors what does paper beat?
    her: rock?
    me: nailed it. what do you listen to?
    her: blah blah

    so to finally the answer your question, b. is the right answer.

    b) Do you only NOT give a straight answer the first time round and then afterwards answer her question??.....

    HB: What do you do for a living?
    PUA: I Punch out the middle of POLO mints!
    HB: haha! Really??....
    PUA: Of course not you clutz! I'm really a ........
    teasing is good, but you still want to display you're value. these " typically asked questions" (especially the first one "what do you do for a living") help her to determine how you live, and your place in the pecking order. also, it gives her something to tell her girlfriends later on.

    her: i met this cute guy last night, he was soo funny, and the best part is, he's a chef! i gave him my phone number, maybe he'll cook me dinner sometime.
    her girlfriends: wow, he sounds like an awesome guy, if he cooks you dinner, you have to send me a picture!
    her: blah blah

    so my point is, being indirect can be a good source of humor, but don't overuse it to the point where you run the conversation into the ground. eventually she should learn the answers to questions. just don't be boring when you tell her.

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    Default Re: How to not give a straight answer??

    Yes, second time, give the real answer.

    You are definitely thinking right. Key is...

    Don't over explain what you do. Keep it short and simple and basic and focus the attention on her.
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    Default Re: How to not give a straight answer??

    I love teasing, it's a favourite spice of mine... use lots but not too much. I wouldn't say 'never give a straight answer' otherwise you will quickly turn into some guy who is just full of shit. I know guys like that, I don't like them and neither do most women.

    If she cares enough to keep asking, throw her a bone. If she was just asking because social conventions dictate that she has to say *something* then she probably won't keep asking anyway.

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    Default Re: How to not give a straight answer??

    As long as you're fun it doesn't matter what you say.

    If you think of something witty/funny when she asks you a question like the age question,then go for it,otherwise don't try to predict these things or be paranoid whether or not you should give a straight answer,be in the moment.

    But I do however agree with the others, don't spill the beans,meaning if she asks you a question,I usually don't go into a long story about me,but keep it short,because everyone likes to talk about themselves and it might be a problem if you start talking about yourself too much due to nervousness,and also they loose interest if you talk about yourself too much.

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    Default Re: How to not give a straight answer??

    Awesome replies guys much appreciated,especial ly from meteora for the post! definitely going to try and incorporate those techniques!

    I have been working A LOT on trying to game girls on the internet but I have now started to get myself out in the field approaching girls - it's difficult because i find it a little harder to think of funny quick responses in person than i do when I have time to type out a reply - so I am trying to think about cocky funny answers to the shitty mundane questions and memorise them so i'm locked and loaded in the field.


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