Re: Is it good to discuss your situation verbally?
I am presuming you aren't using kino early and often. Condition yourself to naturally kino everyone and everything.
You likely aren't making her qualify before giving her reward. Thusly she doesn't feel you are going to go anywhere.
Don't have any information on your body language likely need to improve upon that,
Sounds like you don't have control of the frame.
Also sounds like you have been focusing too much on comfort and rapport without keeping things flirty and light which is killing the attraction.
Right now you need to do some damage control. If it isn't too late. Look up qualifying disqualifiers work on your non verbals, for the love of god kino early and often in all sets work on frame control and use more push/pull and less rapport and comfort building.
These are a few of my observations as of now more details would help me provide you better info
Short answer to your question no bad idea to discuss the situation that sounds like one way ticket to friend zone if you aren't there already.
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