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    CaConfused is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Did I Screw This Up

    Hey guys,

    This girl went from high attractive, but is now acting weird. Any clues?

    So about two months ago I met this girl out for drinks that I had met at a party. Made out, set a date the next week. We made sushi together... and I asked her out again, but this time she flaked.. Said she had to go out of town for business. I ghosted.

    We kept 'facebook flirting'; "liking' photos back and forth for about two months. . She then messaged, asking to hang out. I would be aloof. Then finally I said 'lets get dinner tomorrow'. She jumped and we went out next day (Last Thursday). Made out, I got to second base. She told me she had a meltdown over work, and some weird drama as her explanation for flaking (without my asking) At end of night She msged me after immediately saying what a good time she had, sweet dreams, etc.

    Next day, Friday, she initiates text again.We do some light banter back and forth, and it tapers off. I had the last message.

    So today, Monday, here is the log - I initiate:

    ME: "Great boat and motorcycle weather were having now (it was raining), did you make it on one this weekend? "
    HER: I did 12 hrs of website development for an old client sat and finished up hours sunday with an hour brunch break with friends. "
    ME: All on a boat? Have you been to [restaurant 1] or [restaurant 2] before?"
    HER: no.
    ME: Cool. i wanna hear aout your weekend. lets get dinner and improve on wed"

    No response yet. Pretty weird. Not sure what's going on there. Any clues?

    UPDATE: 2 hours later SHE SAID: "awww, you are sweet. I may have an evening meeting with my old client. let me confirm with her. may be able to do that thursday. I just redid her webpage over the weekend and need to catch up with her.

    Guess she's referencing the webpage from the weekend. Sound like an excuse? How should i respond?

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    Default Re: Did I Screw This Up

    Seems like you're on point with most of the situation....how long has it been since she hasn't responded?? Seems like only today. I would just wait it out, seems like she'll respond eventually.

    -Shoreguy
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    Default Re: Did I Screw This Up

    Quote Originally Posted by ShoreGuy28 View Post
    Seems like you're on point with most of the situation....how long has it been since she hasn't responded?? Seems like only today. I would just wait it out, seems like she'll respond eventually.

    -Shoreguy
    A couple hours. but the rhythm changed. She responded with that UPDATE at the end. Sound legit?

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    Default Re: Did I Screw This Up

    I responded by saying "Sounds good. just tell her we have lots of people to judge from a scale of 1-5!" (This is referring to something we did last date.

    Like it?

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    Default Re: Did I Screw This Up

    Look at the good with this girl.. She scheduled to meet you on Thursday didn't she? So that's a good sign. How about trying to do something romantic, then giving her a silly gift to make her laugh or something... I think you need to slow down your pace a bit... I don't mean your momentum, just your vibe... You're probably trying too hard, and she's noticing.

    PUAJacki

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    Default Re: Did I Screw This Up

    Yeah, I am probably pressing. I am a little in my own head because I ignored her all weekend, spinning plates. She's chatty over text usually so I try to match her vibe.

    Thought she was suggesting meeting with her client on Thursday, not a date with me.

    Ball is in her court I guess, Ill just chill


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