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Thread: Best Steps For Quiet Girls?

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    Default Best Steps For Quiet Girls?

    Whats up Forum, its been a while. A few days ago, I got together with a HB8 girl at a 20th birthday house party. Not including my experience in clubs, this was the quickest I've ever gone from meeting a girl to kissing her and we were both pretty much sober. She's the somewhat shy, quiet, non-flirtatious type. REALLY odd for a girl so attractive! Turns out she goes to my university and studies art in the year below me.

    On the night, we played some birthday games and had lots of fun and laughs with everyone. Once the drinking started, the party was kinda boring and I could see she was bored too. I talked to her, played some games with her, showed her some tricks, she showed me some, and then we moved up stairs to one of the bedrooms for some quiet talk since the music got so loud. After about an hour of having some fun and kino, we kiss. Also, almost from the start she tells me she wants to let me know that she doesn't want sex, (fine by me, because I was exhausted from the day before). After some time, I suggest we go back down to have some fun, (didn't want to leave the birthday girl hanging) Everyone is out of their heads drunk and talking to them was dull. I find the HB8 and we move to one of the rooms where its empty. The room got really cold and she leans against me, holding and playing with my hand as we just chilled. I found out she doesn't have a lot of friends and doesn't do much besides art.

    That night we slept in the same bed and kissed more. When I tried to escalate things a little, she said "We just met." Following Mystery's advice, I was happy with it and didn't pursue. Again, as we slept sometimes she's hold my hand, hug me as we rested, lots of real kino goin' on.

    She's not really a party girl, she doesn't do much besides drawing and reading Spanish literature.

    My question is what are the best steps to take to connect and have fun with a quiet girl and not be awkward?
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    Default Re: Best Steps For Quiet Girls?

    To game quiet girls you have to be PATIENT!! I'm not talking about freaks who pretend to be quiet, I mean truly quiet, shy girls. You got to be patient and take your times, you got to build comfort.and rapport so they can get familiar with you so you can build Up your trust. Once that happens that's the only time you can start to escalate or you will blow yourself out of the game faster than you can think about. Build comfort, build rapport, build trust; BUILD,BUILD, BUILD!
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    Default Re: Best Steps For Quiet Girls?

    I love shy girls mainly because they are far more interesting than the other party animals out there. In saying this, I've looked into almost everything regarding how to game shy girls and Marvilo is on the money, patience is a necessity here.

    It is easier to hurt a shy girl as part of being shy is sometimes attributed to them trying to protect their feelings and or emotions. In general, they are protecting themselves. This is where trust is hard to gain and why many advocate patience because you'll be making tiny strides. The main question is if you see this girl as a potential partner or something to full around with.

    If the former than game on but if it's the latter then walk away. No point spending months to game a shy chick only to hurt her feelings.

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    Default Re: Best Steps For Quiet Girls?

    How can somebody be bored at a party with loud music and alcohol? Heh weird, or maybe we just have different styles I guess..

    But yeah, you just have to build a lot of comfort. If she's shy than she has a thicker 'shell' you have to crack open. Same as if you had a shy friend, they have a social shell they build around themselves that has to be breaken open first.

    But you need to respect her boundaries at the same time..

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    Default Re: Best Steps For Quiet Girls?

    It takes a lot of patience and emotional strength to deal with them. For the most part, a lot of time and energy.

    I do this.

    I cold read that she's a quiet girl.

    Then I introduce myself, and ask her what she likes to do for fun.
    Whatever she says, I instantly qualify. Example= (Girl= I really love reading. Me= That's so interesting, I love reading too. Isn't it so relaxing to be able to sit down and read a good book? What kind of books do you read?"

    Build comfort with her. Then once I have comfort, I break comfort and begin flirting with her.


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