Hey Forum. I met this gorgeous girl at a birthday party. For a girl so beautiful, she seems shy and quiet. She doesn't like loud parties or clubs (like myself) and spends most of her time drawing. I'm starting to like her. Whoever read my previous question post will know the details of how we got together: http://www.puaforums.com/ask-expert/...iet-girls.html. Got some real good advice from marvilo and others (These guys know what they're talking about) which I decided to follow and asked her out on a pleasant date
HOWEVER, someone has thrown a spanner in the works! (Ah fark, here we go again!) It was during the middle of this date she comes clean and tells me a "friend" of mine told her he likes her. Despite the fact she doesn't like him THAT way, (he's a complete AFC sadly to say), she feels guilty and says she doesn't want to come between two friends and that she would like to "take a step back and be friends with both of us and not do anything THAT way, maybe in the future, but not right now, because I really do feel guilty."
Rule Number 1: Never Fight A Friend Over A Woman.
I know to never fight over a woman, its stupid. But the matter of the fact is that we're not really close at all or "good friends", we hang out because of a mutual friend we have, she never liked him THAT way, and I'm pretty sure he only likes her because she's hot, he only met her 2 weeks ago and has hardly talked to her, unlike myself, who, yes, only met her a couple of weeks ago, but have actually bonded with her and have taken her places. He can easily go find another hot girl to try and hit on, while I actually like spending time with her. Even if she went out with me, it wouldn't really change anything between me and this guy because we're both 22, we're adults for crying out loud.
When she told me, it caught me off guard. All I could think of was to not be needy. We talked briefly about it, I told her I liked her, but if she really feels that way about it then we shouldn't date and we said our goodbyes.
Which 2 Options Will I Pick
2. Freeze her out completely - I can just ignore her totally while going out, meeting with people in her class and having fun in the hopes that she will want to come back.
2. Continue the friendship while not giving her ANY sexual attention whatsoever and paying more attention to others - Before she told me everything, I asked if she wanted to go paint-balling this Saturday. She said maybe. Now that everything is in the open, would it be better if I just acted cool, like I didn't care she didn't want to be together THAT way, and continue to have fun times with her, showing her how fun I am, while not even kinoing her, paying attention more to others, etc?
I want to know what you think guys