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    Default Bartender- Interested or nice?

    Hi,

    There is this hot chick I added on facebook like a year ago, she bartenders. We talked on FB only briefly once or twice.

    I as at a bar and noticed her working. I already had a drink from another bartender, I went up to her and said "I'm Jordan, we are FB friends, you probably don't remember." I know stupid thing to say. Anyways she "no I remember" and I said "looking sharp" she smiled and thanked me and I walked away.

    So ten minutes later I need another drink, I go to her and order, she made my drink and said it was on her even though she charged my friend for his earlier.

    This is the first time she has ever served me. Was she just being nice or is she possibly interested?

    Later before I left I held her hand a minute and said I'm taking off, she said nice to meet you and I bounced.

    She is alittle different then most bartenders, she actually got her BS in accounting (that's what I graduated in) but she never actually went into the field, probably because bar tending may pay better (at least for now).

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    Default Re: Bartender- Interested or nice?

    Overthinking this one, as a hired gun yes she needs to be friendly, but to what degree is her discretion.

    That is way to limited of an interaction to come to any conclusion, you can keep this up and maybe collect more free drinks, or you have to find some time and place when she is out of work and go find out.

    Please for the love of god don't ask her while she is working, as if that doesn't happen to her all the time as it is.
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    Default Re: Bartender- Interested or nice?

    Thanks for your reply.

    I have gotten free drinks before over the years when going out, but it was always after already ordering some and/or from being a frequent customer. I guess what caught me off guard was this was my first time here and my first time being served by her.

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    Default Re: Bartender- Interested or nice?

    Yeah, it sometimes can catch a guy off guard, but again don't overthink it and proceed. Regardless of the fact, it doesn't matter if it was an IOI or not, if you really like her figure out a way to make it happen. Also in that context I usually just give her the normal tip plus the cost of the drink so she isn't out money if it is a reputable bar or club usually they have to cover any free drink themselves.
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    Default Re: Bartender- Interested or nice?

    I went to the bar again a few weeks later and again she did not charge me!

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    Default Re: Bartender- Interested or nice?

    One of these times give her a tip with your number on a piece of paper hidden under it.
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