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    Graf is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Pickup a girl, get friendzone, say goodby and leave, and she comes back?

    Well, i had this party and met this girl. Picked her, and after some days, she said i was going too fast and said i was like a brother to her, like a friend.... I said to her i wonīt be friendzoned and said goodbye.

    Next day (today) she asks a song that i played her the other day, i awnsered her, and then she sent me this to hear:

    Eva Cassidy Ft. Chuck Brown - You Donīt Know Me
    (Love song basically)

    I send her Jaded from Aerosmith (Basically says that sheīs in love for me)
    Then she starts talking with a friend of mine, who tried miserably to pick her and coulndīt, by commenting on the videos he was sending......
    So i got the fake jellows game she tried to make, plus she sent a video that he had posted. I just sent "Alice Cooper - Mr. Nice guy" back, and she said she needed to go pack her stuff to travel tomorrow (back to the city we live).....


    Now the question. Is she really feeling that romantic shit and being too shy to say that(she is indeed kind of shy. Never had a BF), or just trying to play with me to get me back in lashes?

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    Default Re: Pickup a girl, get friendzone, say goodby and leave, and she comes back

    After i tryed hitting on her again, and she gave some hints she would put me in frienzone again, i simply said i didnīt want to have any contact with her. So after a friend of her "misteriously" adding me, and after 2 days of strict no talking of my part. She comes to me again, and says she finds it hard to keep no contact with me, and that she like to talk to me.



    Now. WHAT THE FUCK is going on?

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    Default Re: Pickup a girl, get friendzone, say goodby and leave, and she comes back

    What's happening is that you're supplicating. Every time you try to freeze her out she comes back and you melt, leading you to the same place you started in.

    Keep the freeze out going until she's ready to actually have a relationship with you.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: Pickup a girl, get friendzone, say goodby and leave, and she comes back

    I had a party yesterday in my place, and invited her to it. In it i picked her up again, aand i think i got a LMR. She's asking me whats going to happen when she go back where she lives (shes an Erasmus student).

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    Default Re: Pickup a girl, get friendzone, say goodby and leave, and she comes back

    GRAF

    best thing i do, is not to worry/GUESS where she is coming from... WASTE of time.

    #1 you spend too much time guessing "story-lines" where you will guess wrong.

    #2 you're building her up over your level, and it will shake your confidence. SHE IS HUMAN.

    .... so build on what is TRUE..... what do we know.?
    #1 she comes to you
    #2 you have parties - she comes to
    #3 she talks to you.... lol

    so now that you have the basic reqs. down, stick to the games you learned on the forums.

    #1 no insult -- but GUESSING about her is AFC, right.? RIGHT.?!
    #2 take comfort that you are an AFC, and remind yourself you MAY NOT win this one, because TRYING HARDER than you should, is just keeping you from LEARNING what you need to LEARN.

    what do you need to learn that all AFCs need to learn.??
    that she is just another girl that is teaching you how to look at her as JUST ANOTHER girl.

    CONCLUSION
    you are doing the right thing by having parties and being social.... keep doing that.

    don't let someone stop that flow.

    you let her come to you and confuse you, because you want to know what will get her...

    your frame of mind will be better if you allow her to come to you and you practice.

    THE BEST direction --- is to find out what "school" of PUA works for you.... what FITS your character --- because there are direct and indirect --- fast lay --- etc methods.

    let me know what school fits you - what methods you're interested in --- and i'll let you know what that BOOK asks you to do.^^

    GL.^^

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    Default Re: Pickup a girl, get friendzone, say goodby and leave, and she comes back

    Quote Originally Posted by YOKiTran View Post
    THE BEST direction --- is to find out what "school" of PUA works for you.... what FITS your character --- because there are direct and indirect --- fast lay --- etc methods.

    let me know what school fits you - what methods you're interested in --- and i'll let you know what that BOOK asks you to do.^^

    GL.^^
    Thanks for the tips man
    Well, i donīt know wich schools there are. Iīve read Mystery and Style Material, but didnīt got much from it. I was seeing some Gambler stuff, and some of the movements he shows worked pretty good for me. But what can you tell me about the different "schools"?


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