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    afcsupreme is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Is there a way to recover when a girl isn't digging you anymore?

    This girl and I were getting along pretty well for a few months, and even cuddled super hard one night - things were great. However, I think I started to show my interest in her a bit too much, and I think I've pushed her away by doing so. Basically, everything was solid, and then I got too attached and relapsed back into a wuss-bag (as David Deangelo would say >_>)

    Last week, I invited her to check out events with me a couple times, and she said she was busy and had a lot of work, with no mention on her part about rescheduling or going out at a different time. Her speech pattern was also a little colder, I noticed.

    I'm taking this hint to pretty much mean she's lost interest in me and things are done (Q_Q) - and I'm perfectly with with accepting that and moving on (and honestly I think that would be better for me emotionally); but before I do, I'm wondering what y'all would do in this situation. Is there a way to bring things back and restore her opinion of me?

    I've thought about it, and I've come to the conclusion that if I were to message her, I'd just come off as desperate/needy, etc., lowering my value further. 'Chasing' her will only push her away even more, in essence. Additionally, she has no incentive to message me because I have low value in her eyes. Thus things come to a deadlock - my hands are tied because I can't message her (lest she value me even less), and she really won't be messaging me anytime soon on her own.

    Is it even possible to recover from this state of a relationship? Moving on and gaming other women is probably the best choice, but I was wondering what y'alls thoughts were on this particular circumstance.

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    Default Re: Is there a way to recover when a girl isn't digging you anymore?

    Quote Originally Posted by afcsupreme View Post
    Moving on and gaming other women is probably the best choice

    In situations like this, that's almost always the answer. Move on, or at least fake it. Game other women, go out with them, talk to them, etc.

    Faking it comes in when you two end up talking again - be it she messages you first or vice versa. Tell her about the new girl you've met and all the cute/quirky things she does. Don't overdo this, though. Think of this as an opportunity to get out of the friend zone.

    TLDR - Game others. Relentlessly. Read guides about getting out of the friend zone because it's salvageable.
    Always leave her better than you found her.

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    theeights is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Is there a way to recover when a girl isn't digging you anymore?

    Yep. Forget about her for a while, try again when you stop caring. Gaming other girls is the best way to do that.


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