This girl and I were getting along pretty well for a few months, and even cuddled super hard one night - things were great. However, I think I started to show my interest in her a bit too much, and I think I've pushed her away by doing so. Basically, everything was solid, and then I got too attached and relapsed back into a wuss-bag (as David Deangelo would say >_>)
Last week, I invited her to check out events with me a couple times, and she said she was busy and had a lot of work, with no mention on her part about rescheduling or going out at a different time. Her speech pattern was also a little colder, I noticed.
I'm taking this hint to pretty much mean she's lost interest in me and things are done (Q_Q) - and I'm perfectly with with accepting that and moving on (and honestly I think that would be better for me emotionally); but before I do, I'm wondering what y'all would do in this situation. Is there a way to bring things back and restore her opinion of me?
I've thought about it, and I've come to the conclusion that if I were to message her, I'd just come off as desperate/needy, etc., lowering my value further. 'Chasing' her will only push her away even more, in essence. Additionally, she has no incentive to message me because I have low value in her eyes. Thus things come to a deadlock - my hands are tied because I can't message her (lest she value me even less), and she really won't be messaging me anytime soon on her own.
Is it even possible to recover from this state of a relationship? Moving on and gaming other women is probably the best choice, but I was wondering what y'alls thoughts were on this particular circumstance.