This line of questioning is what I feel I like I always trip up on.
Here's a quick list:
1. "Have you ever had a girlfriend?"
2. "How many women have you dated?"
3. "Are you dating someone?"
4. (If I say no to #3) "Why aren't you going out with anyone?"
My gut tells me that I shouldn't honestly be giving up this information easily/without some banter, or that I shouldn't be honest about it at all.
And especially for a guy like me, just getting serious about improving my game, and essentially girlfriendless for 21 years, the "Have you had a girlfriend?" question stings quite a bit, as it's difficult and sucky to answer : |
I know the goal should be to improve myself, and not to try and get a girlfriend at any cost, but in these kinds of situations, it hurts quite a bit ;__;
Anyway, how do y'all answer these kinds of questions? I feel like when women ask me these things, they definitely have some interest/attraction for me, but I don't really know how to answer in such a way that conveys my lack of experience with relationships. Any advice?