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Thread: Ideas for solo sarging?

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    Default Ideas for solo sarging?

    (There might be some grammar/spelling errors here, please let me know if you find any)

    This is something that's starting to happen quite often and it's really bothering me. Every weekend I intend to go out with my friends to a club they end up saying that they won't be able to go or they don't answer my messages at all. Since I'm really looking foward to improve my game this is not only annoying but counterproductive. Is there any alternative to going to clubs? (bars are not an option until I move to another place since the ones in my town suck) Should I just go out alone? (I know this wouldn't be the best option since it wouldn't help me to DHV but damn, my friends are boring assholes sometimes).

    I know that the best thing to do is to find new friends, but until I find them, what do you think I should do?

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    Default Re: Ideas for solo sarging?

    I know that the best thing to do is to find new friends, but until I find them, what do you think I should do?
    simple solution, go out alone and make friends at the clubs.

    trust me, people go to clubs because they are lonely. everyone is there to meet people and have fun.

    you will find that going solo isn't all that bad, start by chatting up the club staff (bouncers, bartenders, the DJ, and anyone else you see wearing staff shirts) usually staff members will be happy to chat, especially the bouncers.
    once you become a regular at a club, the staff will recognize you and usually give you better service.

    as for chatting up woman without any wings, its both easier and harder. its easier because your wing can't cock block if you don't have a wing. its just harder to isolate your girl from her group if you don't have a wing.

    you need to see going out solo as an advantage. its not all that bad, and it forces you to meet people. if your like me, then going with friends actually just causes me to spend a lot of time talking with my friends and not much time doing approaches. versus if I go solo, I have to introduce myself to other people if I want anyone to talk to.

    its a lot easier to make new friends when you go solo. and likely a lot easier to meet woman too (especially if the group you normaly go out with is all guys)

    btw a note about your friends, I'm guessing they all have girl friends or are just losers who can't pick up woman and don't make much effort to?

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    Default Re: Ideas for solo sarging?

    Well, it sounds a little difficult thing to do considering my AA, but I'll definitively give it a try the next time it happens. It seems like I could learn a lot of new things by doing it and I had already planned to start talking to the stuf members. Is there any book/post/whatever on the subject, or should I just learn from experience?

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post
    btw a note about your friends, I'm guessing they all have girl friends or are just losers who can't pick up woman and don't make much effort to?
    The second one. The ones wih girlfriends don't even bother to leave their houses.

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    Default Re: Ideas for solo sarging?

    Yea it easy to make friends at the club, then you make their friends. I used to go alone, and just so I woudnt be standing around in the corner I would talk yo the bartender or whoever is buying a drink ,

    To the bros I would be likr "Nice kiks bro never seen anything like that"
    or DAMN man you look like!!_____ then I would talk where im from, see if we have the same hobbies and then I would say " man im doing that nexr week I hit you bro" number close no homo

    what the first guy said its easy and hard to go solo, or why not make a guy friend at the club and say 'dude lets pick up some chicks or what?!
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    Default Re: Ideas for solo sarging?

    Well, it sounds a little difficult thing to do considering my aa, but I'll definitively give it a try the next time it happens.
    AA is something that can only be tackled by constantly talking to new people. think of it like hunger, you have to fight it your whole life if you want to keep from getting fat. the only way to fight AA is to put your balls out on the chopping block and make approaches till your more comfortable doing it.

    you just have to realize that not everyone you approach is going to like you, and the fact of the matter is that you just have to stop giving a sh!t about whether they like you or not.

    Is there any book/post/whatever on the subject, or should I just learn from experience?
    you really should read the book "be relentless" by david x (google search it, you can download it online for free)

    it should help you get in the right mindset to stop being a pu$$y and go after whatever it is you desire.

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    Default Re: Ideas for solo sarging?

    I'm really starting to like you guys meteora and Suave Kino, you're really helping me!
    I'll try to make some solo day/night (not sure if there's going to be any nice club open tomorrow) appoches tomorrow, I'll be posting any doubt I have after that. Wish me luck!


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