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    CaConfused is offline PUA in Training
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    Default When and How Do you Return the Call

    Hey guys,

    Had a girl flake on me on Saturday evening date. She said she had to go with her female friend on Sunday at 7am to pick up a truck she needed to move and had to get her work done the day before. Sure enough she had the instagram pics to prove it.

    She was very apologetic, sending me texts durng her trip, and even calling me a couple times on the road -- which i kept missing. So this leads to my Dumb Question I'd like an answer to.

    She calls me at 4pm. Leaves VM.
    I return call at 5:30pm. Leave VM. Then I go out with one of my other plates
    She calls at 9pm, leaves VM.
    Then she texts at 10:00 and says "Hey MIster, I'm safely home. We have to catch up soon.:

    BTW, i'm banging the other plate when this text comes in)

    So I text at 9am the next day "Saw your pics of the road trip. Looked fun!"

    She replies "Yeah, Cece (her friend) is always a fun time!"

    So what's my next move? Do I owe her a call back? Should I suggest something else? I feel like she has to make the next move after flaking and telling me she'll make it up to me.

    THANKS

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    Default Re: When and How Do you Return the Call

    Really need some advice here soon guys - here a a brief version!


    Girl called me yesterday and left a voicemail.

    I called her back. Left a voicemail.

    She called me back at 9pm and left a voicemail. Then an hour later texted me saying "let's catchup sometime mister!"

    I texted her 9am the next day and said "saw your road trip pics. looked fun!"

    She replied "I always have a good time with Cece!"

    So my question is: do I owe her a call back?

    Please answer soon!

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    Default Re: When and How Do you Return the Call

    Sorry bro, I'm not sure what's happened to this forum. Have all the PUA's been sleeping?

    I'm not a regular but I've been posting for some help recently too and had no luck Very unusual.

    Anyway: Sometimes shit happens. I don't know if you particularly owe her a CALL back, but this phone tag thing is annoying I'm sure.

    Try to set a date for a following week but expect her to flake. If she does it again move on. I'm not one to fight against flakes because I've had it happen to me and read about PUA's that have had the same. They expect them to do so, make alternative plans, and move on instantly.

    Sounds like you are attracted to her and want it to work though. Make a new date and then call her the night before to make sure she isn't going to flake. Maybe joke about how when she shows up for the date in the same truck, she better be dressed like Daisy Dukes to make up for the previous week.
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