Re: how to k or f close?
For the K close I just create a moment. You just have to think of something clever and lead them into it comfortably.
You: "What are you thinking about?"
Her: "I don't know"
You: "Well is it..."
And kiss her!
You "Look at those two kissing"
You "They didn't do so well. I think we can do better than that though" And kiss her!
Be bold and create your own magic. As far as getting the F close, that is too complicated for one response. All I can say is that I've done a lot of them on first dates but it's always a dynamic approach. The trick is just to make her very comfortable, and try to get her into your place/get into her place at the end of the night. Once in a comfortable setting, her inhibitions can be lowered further by smooth talking or alcohol or a combination of both.
Discovering PUA one step at a time.
Feel free to disagree with my opinions. I encourage it!