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    Default How does one initiate sex?

    Hey guys.

    I.. well. Not sure how to put this: but I have my V card. I can get a girl to come home, cuddle in bed with me, etc, but I always freeze up and panic when it comes time to make a move. I get stuck in the make-out phase. I used to think I just wasn't attracted to the girl I was with, but I think that's not the case: I think my nervousness is making me non-horny.

    How do I get over this? And how do I initiate some sort of sexual encounter? Thanks

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    Default Re: How does one initiate sex?

    First of all get the F over it. It's not a big deal! Stop thinking about it so much, to conquer you must do. Second, read this and you will know the HOW to get it done.
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    Good luck man!

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    Default Re: How does one initiate sex?

    I think maybe you're a little afraid of being rejected or that "how long will you last" thingy. Don't think too much about making a move. It's sex, it's good no matter what.

    As my Acting Coach always say "Just be in the moment"

    If i was a girl I would tell you that maybe she's just not the one...

    But as a member of the dude society I challenge you, nay , I require you to boink that chick.

    Goodluck brotha. May the force be with you.

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    Default Re: How does one initiate sex?

    Quote Originally Posted by fridaybagels View Post
    Hey guys.

    I.. well. Not sure how to put this: but I have my V card. I can get a girl to come home, cuddle in bed with me, etc, but I always freeze up and panic when it comes time to make a move. I get stuck in the make-out phase. I used to think I just wasn't attracted to the girl I was with, but I think that's not the case: I think my nervousness is making me non-horny.

    How do I get over this? And how do I initiate some sort of sexual encounter? Thanks

    FB
    Don't feel bad guy. Nervousness releases adrenaline, which is just a major boner killer. I would get so nervous my first few times I couldn't even get it up. Talk about embarrassing.

    Couple things you can do. Stop fapping. Go like two or three weeks without it, then you'll be so ready to go you won't care as much.

    Secondly, you may be freezing up because you don't know if she wants it. When you're making out, try rubbing her in more sexual areas and see how she responds. If she doesn't move your hand away, that's a plus. Also if you start to get turned on at any time, you can take her hand and put it on... well you know. Show her you're turned on by her, and that'll turn her on as well

    Third, bite and suck her neck. This turns girls on A LOT!! You don't want to go too hard that you hurt her, but you'll be surprised how hard you can actually bite. DO it right and she'll moan a little. Then go for sucking on the breasts, women get turned on by this too.

    Fourth, be the first to take clothing off. She'll get the hint and if she isn't down, she'll stop you there. Start with just your shirt first, then her shirt, etc. And don't be self-conscious about taking your shirt off. Realize she don't give a sh!t what you look like underneath (usually). She's there to enjoy you (and the D).

    That's how you transition.

    But your problem seems to be mental too. Your brain is your greatest sex organ. If you're in your head and thinking "What do I do? Will she like this?" etc, you're gonna have a bad time. You need to just enjoy it. Enjoy her body, her lips, her smell. Everything. Don't even think about what to do, just enjoy the moment and the feeling. You'll get out of your head and get rock solid.

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    Default Re: How does one initiate sex?

    Thanks for the replies. I really appreciate it. The girl later said we were "looking for different things" and that our initial time hanging out at my place was awkward (no! really??). So whatever. I'll learn from it and move on.


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