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Thread: What to do If a girl calls you "My dude"?

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    Exclamation What to do If a girl calls you "My dude"?

    So this girl's has been giving me lines those "you're funny" "you're hilariously clever" type of lines. (well... it's something...)

    Everything's doing fine (i think) then bam! she just blurts out: "bla bla blaMy dude, i dont like very many things bla bla" (we we're talking about things she loves to do)

    So i don't know.. Maybe I missed something. I don't know if I built enough attraction or something..

    Ahhh it's killing me! I mean it's some really weird shit to say! Who says "MY DUDE"? It's sooooo weird. haha

    PS i just got this from text so i have no idea what tone she's trying to convey.

    Help me out. Thanks and may the force be with your game.

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    Default Re: What to do If a girl calls you "My dude"?

    If she calls you "dude" call her "dude-ette" or "girl scout" or "nerd-ball" or any other silly nickname.

    Don't read too much into anything... otherwise you'll end up in HER frame, rather than creating your own frame & keeping her in it.



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    Default Re: What to do If a girl calls you "My dude"?

    T-mal beat me to the punch, but he's spot on. You're reading into it wayyy to deeply. Just relax and have fun in your interaction with her, and check yourself when you want to start over analyzing.

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    Default Re: What to do If a girl calls you "My dude"?

    Thanks guys!

    T-mal, I love the silly nicknames! haha I'm definitely gonna use those from now on.

    I find that's one of my problems, I read through the lines waaayyy too much.

    e.g.

    Me: Hey nerdball is that your mystery side showing? I love it!

    HB: I guess its a mystery lol
    : not too exciting when you find out tho haha

    I interpreted that as:
    HB: Thank you for qualifying me
    : I'm lowering my self-value /or not qualifying myself to you.

    I guess it's a problem for starting PUAs. Any solutions?

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    Default Re: What to do If a girl calls you "My dude"?

    If she calls you my dude, be like, "My little sister!" or listen bro, blah blah.

    or if you're feeling cocky...

    "I'm already your dude? We just met, this relationship is getting too serious too fast missy."

    Don't ever take anything a girl says like that to heart. It's mostly a shit test. I once had a girl call me her little brother, before I ended up sleeping with her that night. LOL.


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