Re: Got the dreaded no-response... Where do I go from here?
Umm you go nowhere that's where. You are already overthinking it and your overthinking will only cause you to pursue harder which in effect will drive her farther and farther away. Never have a goal when meeting a new women. A friend maybe set a goal but not a girl fresh out of the yard.
She is already guessing you will pursue overmuch. My attitude with any new girl is just letting go. Hard to pinpoint but I will be on here developing it this Summer as I go. But what I mean is just not caring. I may text once a week, once a month, etc. looking to spread it out more and will contact them shortly after meeting with high value meet up stuff. I will just let them go if they want to. Just indifference. I know no responses is the order of the day but I am going to focus on breaking rapport and playing hot & cold. Screw over pursuing anymore I want an abundance mindset. So maybe blow up her phone one day and then go cold for a week, that type of stuff. But not everyday man I am sick of getting ignored everyday and texting every single day is so needy. So just letting go. You have to play every girl differently and not get too hung up on them by meeting other women. They should be asking you for dates, that's the goal! Plus how many times after date 1 guy texts her like crazy she goes "yeah sorry it's not you it's me". Don't be the only one. Get girls to ask you that should be the right formula cuz if they asked you out there is no rejection. Seems impossible but girls get asked out so frequently maybe they are getting bored of it? I mean still ask if you want but remember if you do it right and get a rotation of numbers you should be so slam packed they would have to ask.
If you want her then ask but she will likely flake so just go focus on other broads and she should come around in time. Girls want a guy who is wanted.
That's my order of the day to utilize. Let 's say you meet a new girl most guy's intention is to take on a traditional date. But I am going to start asking broads to join me for the strangest of things. Like getting my tatts, going to the Water Park, Yoga, Volleyball, Holidays, etc. You get the idea but dates need to be spiced up once in a while so just going to spice it up from now on and include chicks in my life and not just go on interview dates but actual hanging out. You feel me? Big deal but I have a feeling this is going to be very interesting to test the results from this idea. I will be deploying it this year on top of traditional dates of course.
When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.