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    Default Re: Girl playing games/being awkward... call her out?

    Blistex is right.

    As for my opinion I think she's a stupid girl and a waste of time.

    Just be short and straight up.

    Tell her straight up that you have her quote and to call you at xxx-xxx-xxxx.

    If she decides to play games say..

    "I don't discuss business in any other way except for over the phone. You can either give me your number so I can call you, or call me."

    Then drop it and leave it. She will either comply in one way or the other, and if she continues to be stupid, let her go.

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    Default Re: Girl playing games/being awkward... call her out?

    Also she is being a total bitch about this situation, don't give her a discount, she has done nothing to deserve it.
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    Default Re: Girl playing games/being awkward... call her out?

    It looks like my previous reply didn't post but here is an update:

    ME: I have your quotation ready. Call me on ######## for the details

    HER: Just gimme the price

    ME: I don't discuss business in any other way except for over the phone. You can either give me your number so I can call you, or call me.

    HER: I don't talk on the phone so we have a problem

    She did mention to me years ago that she prefers not to talk on the phone but anytime I have been with her recently, she is always on the phone to someone and has talked to myself once on the phone as well. I am also 90% certain that her previous job was in a call centre. I checked Facebook and it is listed as a "Customer Service Rep" for an energy/gas company. It is quite obvious that she is playing games and I was going to leave it but her last response is pretty much a sh1t test.

    Was thinking of replying with:

    You are always talking on the phone anytime I see you, miss customer service rep
    or

    I have the quote papers in front of me, the problem is all yours...
    thoughts?

    At this point I don't even care about her number or discount but don't want to fail that sh1t test.

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    Default Re: Girl playing games/being awkward... call her out?

    Quote Originally Posted by 99Problems View Post
    It looks like my previous reply didn't post but here is an update:

    ME: I have your quotation ready. Call me on ######## for the details

    HER: Just gimme the price

    ME: I don't discuss business in any other way except for over the phone. You can either give me your number so I can call you, or call me.

    HER: I don't talk on the phone so we have a problem

    She did mention to me years ago that she prefers not to talk on the phone but anytime I have been with her recently, she is always on the phone to someone and has talked to myself once on the phone as well. I am also 90% certain that her previous job was in a call centre. I checked Facebook and it is listed as a "Customer Service Rep" for an energy/gas company. It is quite obvious that she is playing games and I was going to leave it but her last response is pretty much a sh1t test.

    Was thinking of replying with:



    or



    thoughts?

    At this point I don't even care about her number or discount but don't want to fail that sh1t test.

    "I don't talk on the phone so we have a problem"

    1)That's actually her and her problem alone.

    2)Freeze her out,she will contact you again if she wants that quote,when she does,text her "you know the #".

    It's not even about her number,getting her laid,it's about being in charge,she calls you and she wants a favor(the discount),she knows that it's part of your job yet she doesn't want to comply,don't be the guy that does everything to please a girl,be the guy that knows his value.

    Also,I don't really like your approach,don't try to call her out on her stuff,she's a girl she'll just make it more awkward and bring up more excuses,just make her doubt herself,make her think that you know that she's playing you,that's why you don't respond.

    She might call you at some point,but you don't show any interest,just be super professional about it,I wouldn't even mention the discount until she brings it up.If she does,you be the judge.

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    Default Re: Girl playing games/being awkward... call her out?

    Quote Originally Posted by Ra1d View Post
    It's not even about her number,getting her laid,it's about being in charge,she calls you and she wants a favor(the discount),she knows that it's part of your job yet she doesn't want to comply,don't be the guy that does everything to please a girl,be the guy that knows his value.
    You're absolutely right. She is trying to play me and that is why I was initially trying to counter with something or call her out. I understand why I shouldn't respond or get more drawn into this... but... will not responding to her sh1t test make me look weak? It's clearly her problem alone which I already know.

    Quote Originally Posted by Ra1d View Post
    Also,I don't really like your approach,don't try to call her out on her stuff,she's a girl she'll just make it more awkward and bring up more excuses,just make her doubt herself,make her think that you know that she's playing you,that's why you don't respond.
    What would have been a better way to handle this from the start? I was thinking that calling her out/countering would let her know that I am aware she is playing games... but then others have said to not tell her that she is being awkward/silly. I don't care about getting her number or hooking up at this point... knew it wasn't going to happen anyway.. I am just trying to rise above her silly games and stay in control.

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    Default Re: Girl playing games/being awkward... call her out?

    Quote Originally Posted by 99Problems View Post
    ... but... will not responding to her sh1t test make me look weak? It's clearly her problem alone which I already know.
    Well the sh1t test is to make you comply,to have you play by her rules,and you're doing the opposite by freezing her out.
    If you called her out on this,that would mean that you are aware of the fact that she's playing you,but you're giving her a way to escape by letting her feed you with more excuses.

    By freezing her out,you just deliver a different message "stop wasting my time,I know what you're doing".


    Quote Originally Posted by 99Problems View Post
    What would have been a better way to handle this from the start?
    I don't see anything wrong with what you did,you tried to help her out,but when you needed a phone call she started freaking out.

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    Default Re: Girl playing games/being awkward... call her out?

    I would have sent her the first message and then not even bothered replying to the rest. Nothing else needs to be exchanged here, and definitely no discount.

    By continuing to force her into something she doesn't want to do, you are showing that you NEED and CARE that she is compliant. By calling her out you continue to show weakness, after weakness after weakness.

    Don't answer her back, don't continue the discussion, she obviously is trying to use you for a discount and isn't interested. Don't reply unless she calls you to set up a time to get the work done, be professional and get your money. DO NOT give this girl a discount she doesn't deserve one.
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